Rudeness, I don't want you here.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
May 23, 2016 1:13am CST
Have you encountered people who are rude? Not in the way they treat you but more likely the way they open up their thoughts about your post. It's okay to say sad and pathetic but what bothers me is that if you don't like the idea or the discussion made by someone, just mind your own words instead of commenting or just leave that thoughts in your mind. Because it will not make you less of a person. You are creating something bad to everyone.
I live in a country where hormones are too sensitive. I'm here not to engage bad moments but rather moments to filled with delightfulness. I am sad and pathetic, maybe I am. Who wants to be in my position where I can only rely on dialysis machine. Yes. My life will never be the same. At least be good to someone you don't know. Because you might never know, that person is trying to survive every day of their lives.
So instead of making them feel awful try to brighten their day. Like words to ponder, note to self or a smiley.
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
23 May 16
Discussions are meant to receive good and bad feedback as there is no right answer. It really depends on the topic, but if it is something sensitive like a persons well-being, then some things should not be said. In that position, if one has nothing nice to say then do not say it all and move along. However, if its something debatable - sure why not!
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@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
23 May 16
@JustBhem I am all for someone to voice their opinion but it depends on the topic. Sometimes the words used can be offensive. I hope you do not come across rude people and if you do - just ignore them.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
23 May 16
@infatuatedbby yes. It would be a lot easy if I just ignore them. :) thanks
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@lexinonomous (511)
• Riverside, California
23 May 16
I think that people should know when to tone it down a bit. I don't see anything wrong with sharing an opinion or voicing the fact that you disagree, but it's hard to deal with people when they're constantly being negative. I've received my fair share of negative responses before and it just has to go ignored. Sometimes people don't know how to be sensitive.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 May 16
@lexinonomous and as much as possible I dont want to argue. we have different set of ideas. its just annoying when you believe you are right yet still for them you are wrong.
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@lexinonomous (511)
• Riverside, California
24 May 16
@JustBhem Definitely. I've had a few people in various forums try to get under my skin. Every time I've ever argued, it just resulted in people doing it continuously. It's much better to ignore them.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
23 May 16
ah, now i understand your past comment about being sick. i've seen young patients, too.
there's usually a clash of cultures in international sites like these in terms of how we express our thoughts and the words we use.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
15 Nov 18
@JustBhem I will always believe that people are allowed to view the opinion that they have BUT I also believe that there is nothing stopping anyone from venting their thoughts in a nice manner. It is possible to get our views across while speaking nicely. I know that people can become angry, rude and overly sensitive or insensitive about certain topics so I do give people a chance by letting them know that they can just speak nicely to me for I will speak nicely back but if they keep up the attitude I tend to give them more a strict approach or I will get a bit harsh myself when I've had enough of their tone.
I'm sorry you deal with such people. It is often hard for people to understand what they have never been through.
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@precious4011 (294)
• Nigeria
23 May 16
I agree with, but it depends On what the post is saying. If it's not interesting to them, they will giv you wrong comment.
I know there are rude people, who intentionally goes with wrong feedback. Just to frustrate the writer even if it's make sense...
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@cherigucchi (15932)
• Philippines
23 May 16
I did encounter someone like that in a different blogging site and sad to say that I did not really let it pass just like that. It was really confirmed that manners cannot be bought.
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@sabashekh (1218)
• Bhopal, India
23 May 16
I agree .. Some people are rude ... There are some who are good in starting but then turns rude ..
But somewhere I ignore by thinking that its their opinion .. And thus ignore it ...
But yess I agree people are rude
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