Feeling pissed off

India
May 24, 2016 8:35pm CST
Why did she do it with me?Are friends so selfish and if yes then I really don't need them.One of my close friend suggested me not to get admission in abroad because according to her I may not be able to manage alone and she can't live without me so I felt that she is right.I was so much influenced by her so called advice that I believed her and did not submit my application to abroad.Now comes the shocking part.!Yesterday I came to know that she got admission in a university in abroad.she sent her application.Really shocknig!she is not even picking up my calls and avoiding me.This time her longing for me and her home ,all have just vanished?Need a answer to this question..
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Cristy
@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
25 May 16
If she is a good friend, she should have encouraged you to submit your application together with hers. She might be ashamed of what she did that's why she's not answering your call.
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Divyanshi chaudhary
@Divyanshi45 (193)
• India
25 May 16
You are right cristy but what she did to me,I am not gonna forgive her for that.she doesn't deserve my friendship
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Cristy
@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
25 May 16
@Divyanshi45 ... how about if she comes to you and ask forgiveness and then tell you that she did not intend to something like "fool" you? There are times that best friends become our best enemies. Hope it will not happen to both of you.
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Divyanshi chaudhary
@Divyanshi45 (193)
• India
25 May 16
@magallon I really don't know but the way she is not picking up my calls seems thy she won't face me ever in life.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
7 Jun 16
So she discouraged you from applying, then applied herself? That's not the action of a true friend.
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Divyanshi chaudhary
@Divyanshi45 (193)
• India
8 Jun 16
Yes jabo..she isn't my true friend.i realised it late but its never too late
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Divyanshi chaudhary
@Divyanshi45 (193)
• India
8 Jun 16
Yes jabo..she isn't my true friend.i realised it late but its never too late
Reine25
@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
9 Jun 16
She is acting like a real one
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Divyanshi chaudhary
@Divyanshi45 (193)
• India
9 Jun 16
Right!and I was foolish enough to trust her before
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Alexis
@lexinonomous (511)
• Riverside, California
25 May 16
It sounds to me like she didn't think that she would be accepted into a program abroad, so she feared losing you. It was wrong of her to ask you to give up an amazing opportunity, but you did make the choice to stay. She would be foolish to not take the opportunity abroad, but I don't think what she did to you was right at all. If you can't get a hold of her, I would leave it alone for a few weeks.
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