The Boundaries did it!

@Teep11 (7673)
United States
May 27, 2016 7:12pm CST
Setting boundaries is important. I had to learn to set them. I would take mess over and over again but now. I'm not having no nonsense. Oh no. A person gets tired of dealing with foolishness. Somethings just don't need our attention. If one wants to keep tugging and tugging then they will learn to stop tugging. There's nothing wrong with standing up for ourselves.We have every right to do so. Be brave, confident, and strong. Blessings to all! :)
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minisam
@miniam (9151)
• Bern, Switzerland
28 May 16
So well said.As you age, you find that there are things you dont have time for,things you dont have a reason to tolerate.
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Teep11
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
28 May 16
That's absolutely right. It doesn't make sense to tolerate all sorts of mess. Not to me!
minisam
@miniam (9151)
• Bern, Switzerland
28 May 16
@Teep11 same here,l do think im past that stage of trying to please everyone
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Teep11
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
28 May 16
@miniam yes indeed. I just can't. The ones that will be there will be there and if not well. That's how it goes.
Toni
@toniganzon (77156)
• Philippines
28 May 16
Setting boundaries is a must.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
28 May 16
yes in a family or a business one has to set boundaries so everyone knows what to do and not to do eveh kidsexpect parents to set boundaries and not just let them do anything theyu want if its not good for them.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
28 May 16
@Teep11 y ou are so right works in families and in work too
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Teep11
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
28 May 16
Yes, we have to set those boundaries, if not people will walk all over us.
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ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 May 16
You are very correct, as matured ones, we have to set ourselves as a good, brave example to everyone so that they won't pull as easily.
Teep11
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
28 May 16
It should be that way. We can rise above and we can steadily mature.
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ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
28 May 16
Angie
@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
28 May 16
How right you are. I say no all the time now. I also wont answer the phone when people think I should be waiting for that call.
Teep11
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
28 May 16
We live and learn. When one gets tired they get tired. I'm not sure about a call but I do know that somethings just need to cease.
@acelawrites
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
28 May 16
I agree we must give them signals that they can not always be given the priority because we have separate lives and busy with so many things.