Question for the ladies..

@slayer08 (2377)
Philippines
May 28, 2016 7:51pm CST
I have a friend who once told me that she dont need to make herself beautiful because she already has a boyfriend.. She is a beautiful woman, stunning smile and really engaging eyes. I'm not talking about covering your face of make up, here. I mean, I've heard this statement from other women before.. Why is that? I always believed that you dress up, put on a little blush and gloss, do your hair and wear nice smelling perfume for yourself And not for anyone else. So, I also believing looking good for your man is a good thing.
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Toni
@toniganzon (77119)
• Philippines
29 May 16
When i got married, I started wearing clothes i didn't use to wear when I was single. I started wearing short shorts, revealing clothes and all. I want to look good for myself and not for anybody else. My reason for wearing those after getting married? Nobody else could have me and they only have to stare at me coz i'm now taken.
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Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
I do, too. And it is a surprise to me if other ladies who are married don't do it. Although imrespect their preference or choice of clothing but I always have a take on it that once married, we have to take care of ourselves all the more.
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Toni
@toniganzon (77119)
• Philippines
29 May 16
@slayer08 Yes and i make my son proud as he doesn't want to have a fat mom.
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Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
@toniganzon haha.. Well I bet your son will love you regardless.. But yes, it is always good to prioritize oneself and ones health as well; it's not merely about beauty anyway.
joy
@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
29 May 16
it is a good thing, i agree.
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joy
@MGjhaud (23228)
• Philippines
31 May 16
thats right -- with or without a partner.
Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
30 May 16
Thanks! Although it's not about being all dolled up, but making ourselves presentable is something that we all should do
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
29 May 16
That's a wrong notion for her. It is too confident for her to say.
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Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
30 May 16
A lot of women think that way but then they get angry when their man looks at other women or admire other women. Anyway, you will be doing it for yourself anyway and not necessarily for a man.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
31 May 16
@slayer08 As on old principles in life. love yourself first before sharing it to others.
ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 May 16
i don't like her idea of not making herself beautiful or attending herself because she has already a boyfriend. why? do girls only make herself beautiful because she wants someone for her life. no, we ladies should love also ourselves, give some time for pampering and making ourselves beautiful.
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ida123
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
30 May 16
Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
30 May 16
I know, but that's just how she sees it. It's okay if it makes her happy, I just wouldn't do what she does, for me, I believe making myself presentable is a good way of taking care of myself. I would feel confident all the time if people see me as that. I always believe that if you look good you feel good.. We all do I think.
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Pankhini
@Pankhini (485)
•
29 May 16
Nothing wrong in dressing up and being presentable... you yourself will feel good and confident... it had nothing to do with man...
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Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
exactly. like I said, you do it for yourself and not for anyone.
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khara
@stephjoy (759)
• Philippines
29 May 16
the true beauty is what in inside, and how you care for your man..and yes of course we need to get dress something nice that he can make stare always with you..it is nice to hear when your man compliments what you wear
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Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
29 May 16
i agree :)
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