If you were me.

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Is there such a thing as submissive husbands or it should always be the wives who have to be submissive. My husband has trouble doing things I request him to do. He either has side comments or complaints. We often have this scenario at home. Me: Avoid carrying our baby in front of the electric fan when she is soaking with sweat. Just wipe her sweat dry. She might catch pneumonia or pulmonary disease Him: She feels hot. Me: But she is wet with sweat. Him: she is korean like me she will not get sick We have been arguing about this since the baby was born and he has been doing this every day. ******* Me: when you sneeze and cough , cover your mouth.otherwise you will spread virus or bacteria Him: i dont have bacteria.my cough and colds are not virus or bacteria Me: i dont want our baby to get sick. Him: this is not bacteria.the air is just dirty.i dont have virus. But he has been coughing and his colds are terrible Now the baby has colds too.and he refuses to go to the doctor.He has posted his symptoms in a korean website and a korean pharmacist (but my hubby is not sure if the person was really a pharmacist) told him to buy antibiotics.And we bought all of them worth over 20USD. ********- I have a cough Me : please give me a cup of hot water. Him: How about soda? Me: I have cough i need to take lots of liquid. Him : but this is also liquid Me : I said I need hot water. (Smirks) Him: you dont like soda? ***** This morning mom said she will wash all our dirty clothes. So i asked my husband"Where did you put the clothes you used last Sunday? " You have to wear them once otherwise it wil be hard to remove the dirt.The last night I reminded him to put them in the laundry bag but he did not do it. Me: where are the dirty clothes. Him: what clothes? Me: your dirty clothes. And change also that t-shirt .You stained it with cough syrup.That will be hard to remove. Him: NO.Very easy Me: Mom will have a hard time washing stained and smelly clothes. Him: NO.very easy just soak. Me : I said change your stained t-shirt! ***** At the restauarant. Me: I am.not allowed to eat shrimp. Him: ( shoves the shrimp and tried to feed me) Me: I have hives. My rashes are itchy. Him: You try. Me: I cannot eat that. Him: No.This is okay Me : im covered with hives cant you see? Him: you bite this Finally I said, put*ng ina, (son of a b**ch) are you blind? ****** While I was recuperating from surgery in the hospital I received a text message from him. Him : I will buy milk for our baby. Me: okay.Do not buy other brand and label No matter what do not buy other milk except the milk.that our daugther has been using. NAN PRO TWO. Him : no problem. I took a picture of the milk box unfortunately, when I arrived home two days after I saw in the cabinet that he bought a DIFFERENT MILK!!!! He bought Nan Pro HW .( this is for sick babies and our baby is not sick) He was told by the salesman that the one waa out of stock. Then HE SHOULD NOT HAVE BOUGHT INSTEAD. Good thing the box was not yet opened .my mom returned the milk and it was replaced with a correct one. Every day I have to deal with his behavior sometimes I could not wait for him to board on ship.Because, i get really tired. If you were me, how would you deal if you have a spouse like this.