What is more difficult than being in a relationship ???

@birjudanak (14320)
India
June 22, 2016 11:37pm CST
hello friends i am putting very few post because not much online here so today i feel that need to post to become active here..... Dating is really a vary hard task. it has rules,risks and fails too... do you know what is difficult than being in a relationship, its all rules and that is why dating fails..... sometimes dating can also fail if your spouse is not faithful to you.but make sure you dont commit these mistakes and have a happy life.... my one friend first dating with her girlfriend so while he not going i ask him then he give some reason like this but yes if you like to date more you have to keep trust on both of you and then relationship become strong.......
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@Shavkat (137256)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
Dating is essential for a relationship. We can't control if it will be successful or not. The most important thing is to have a strong affection to each other.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
30 Oct 16
@Mustangjenny34 yes and that good thing in relation because due to small issue you take home in head that not good sign of your relation because its happen with all but it doenst means it that kind of important that you start to fight which each other.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
yes you are right it depend of affection to each other because if you not like each other or affection then why need to do date so its also need trust....
• Belton, Missouri
29 Oct 16
That's so true!! We have strong affection for each other and know each other's little quirks. We may not get along 24/7 but we also never stay mad for more than a few minutes if that.
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• Philippines
23 Jun 16
Being in a relationship is not easy, things might go for a change. There are a lot of adjustments need to consider to make relationship will work out.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
if we not adjust not any relationship maintain because sometime small misunderstanding create and its upon to us that how to short out because both start shouting then its break very soon but if one say sorry or not speak then its end soon....
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• Philippines
24 Jun 16
@birjudanak to listen each other side would be a great thing to do in having a good relationship.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
@eliza_godinez12 yes first have to listen and understand both well then only it build...
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
I make my own rules as I go. I'm a very spontaneous person but I have respect for people in all kinds of relationships be it family, spouse, or friendship. I think if we have love and respect then nothing would be difficult.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
24 Jun 16
@birjudanak Thank you so much for thinking so highly of me.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
@toniganzon you are ....
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
i know you will never face that problem because you are such a wonderful person in all field and you know well with whom how to behave and in under limitation as i talk with you, you are very sharp and clear minded girl who never accept defeat and work hard to get that thing so its good to hear from you and while i read your post or comment its very powerful that i also learn from it....
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
23 Jun 16
did you typed this correctly, "Sometimes dating can also fail if your spouse is not faithful to you."? still dating then called spouse? how come?
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
dear some one still in relationship and not marry so they can also use it and sometime its related to before while they are single and in love they date but while become marry not as before.....
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
@trivia79 ok sorry for that's
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
24 Jun 16
@birjudanak yeah, but it's understandable if you use the word 'partner' instead
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• Philippines
23 Jun 16
Trust. Relationship works if trust is there. I tell you, you can handle all the problems but if you broke that trust, then everything is broken into pieces.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
i am very happy to see you here dear because i not more online there.... you are right everything depend on trust while you are in relationship and while it lost then everything spoil.....
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
@rachz_kisses thanks dear hows going here your journey and have a nice day to you also...
• Philippines
24 Jun 16
@birjudanak Yes. It is so nice to see you here too. Have a great day, my friend.
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• Belton, Missouri
27 Oct 16
I met my fiancé Richard at an online dating site. We have been together for 8 years. It's true that you have to weed out the "frogs" and "bad apples" but if you are really wanting to meet the one it's worth trying!!
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
27 Oct 16
wow its really interesting that you met on online dating because its hard to get success and after 8 years you still together then its really good thing otherwise what i seen mostly online relation not successful.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
27 Oct 16
@Mustangjenny34 yes i said not all people are bad but when you chose stranger then you have to look all that is he ok or not as you dont know anything about it and it will change your life but i am glad that you will are with right person..
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• Belton, Missouri
27 Oct 16
@birjudanak oh yes!! I've learned my lesson!! I'm just so grateful I met Richard. But the people online aren't all that bad. It just random.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
24 Jun 16
Being in a relationship do have rules and risks indeed but I believe that for as long as you are in a relationship with the right person and you stay faithful and trustworthy it will help a lot.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
8 Nov 16
we must have to know person first well so we have to give time to know each other and then decide to think what to do because they are stranger and we cant put direct trust on them.
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@annierose (19501)
• Philippines
24 Jun 16
Love cannot live without trust. If the woman and man will always doubt each other, then they will have more fights than understanding. Their ego will kill the relationship and instead of growing, it will be the poison that will kill the feelings of one another toward each other. Love should also be give and take. It is not healthy that it is just one sided.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
yes most of time they doubt on each others so due to it they never trust even they say true and sometime they trust a lot even other say but they not believe so its depend on situation also ...
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Oct 16
Trust is very important for a relationship to work indeed . Jealousy maybe be good , but having it always means there is a mistrust in one of you .
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
17 Oct 16
you from both , one have to understand and let go it so no problem come.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
10 Sep 16
People need to spend some time wit hone another .. keep talking to get to know one another ..
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
8 Nov 16
yes i agree with you because till not know each other we cant decide anything.
• United States
8 Oct 19
I do not like dating
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• United States
8 Oct 19
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
8 Oct 19
Aww its OK
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@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
23 Jun 16
How are you feeling it my friend? sometimes, it may be difficult. For Indians...everything becomes easy once it is understood.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
yes dear its not me but my friend problem as he date more before and now they both talk very less because some misunderstanding....
@hydraa (807)
• Mumbai, India
24 Jun 16
So I say, relationship is a waste of time hahah :D
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
24 Jun 16
its like laddo in our language that the person who never eat it want to eat and person who eat it not want to eat again...ha haa
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@hydraa (807)
• Mumbai, India
24 Jun 16
@birjudanak haha I liked that response.
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