The other story

Mumbai, India
August 14, 2016 7:23am CST
When you get dumped, everyone has a lot of things to say. But when you breakup with someone, people call you selfish, cold hearted, a b*tch etc.People don't realise that sometimes it's as hard for a person to leave someone as it is for the other person who is being left.
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• Bryant, Arkansas
14 Aug 16
You should never be called cold hearted for removing yourself from a relationship that you wanted to end I mean if any thing the only way u could be considered cold heart is if u stayed with him and led him on but I'm highly assuming that's not the case. So forget the haters girls it's all good.
• Mumbai, India
14 Aug 16
Yes thank you so much! Finally some people who understand.
• Mumbai, India
14 Aug 16
@Mhartle2015 Yes I am trying to convince myself that I did the right thing and I should be happy
• Bryant, Arkansas
14 Aug 16
@sakinasaifee18 you for sure should not be so hard on yourself cause I mean the other person must be super blind not to see the un happiness...
@aarifa (1210)
• India
14 Aug 16
absolutely right...but you can get gutz from that experience..
• Mumbai, India
30 Jun 17
True.
@skysnap (20154)
14 Aug 16
I think in grand scheme of things it does not matter. And we have to learn to move on.
• Mumbai, India
30 Jun 17
It sometimes does. But I learnt a lot from it.
@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
14 Aug 16
yes. i agree. breaking someones heart isn't a easy task. we become responsible for the heartbreak. no-one seems to notice that the decision was actually the more responsible one.
• Mumbai, India
14 Aug 16
Exactly it's difficult knowing you're the reason for someone's pain
@efanxing (54)
• Hebei, China
14 Aug 16
You cant change the weather, but you can change your mood.You can change others, so why not change your attitude.Once something happens, there are always various voices.Clear your mind, make a better choice (though it is always hard).Happiness is just like a pair of shoes, only you yourself know if it suits you or not.
• Mumbai, India
14 Aug 16
You are right thank you tons!