What would you do if your son had experience bullying in his class?
By Dyoizzz
@dyoizzz_lj (149)
Angeles City, Philippines
September 8, 2016 9:28pm CST
Yesterday when my son got home from school he was crying so hard. So I ask him why he was crying, then he told me that, "My classmates blaming me that I steal". Then I ask him if it is true, he said no. So he tell me what happen.
First, one of his classmate named Paris started it, he was just trying to tease my son. One of his classmate named Kevin is looking for his ID, then Paris said, "LJ (my son's name) took it!" Lj said, "I did not took it, you can check my bag". Then suddenly all of his classmates said "LJ is a stealer" they keep on repeating and repeating it.
What I did I texted her teacher and report about what happen. So the teacher went to my house and talk to me. I told her that she need to talk to her students about it.
My son got so depressed about what happen. Of course if everybody said that to you even its not true your gonna be sad.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
I would have done the same. I'm just fortunate no such things are happening in my son's school. The school has a strong campaign against bullying and they always emphasized that they could not tolerate bullying. Three's a student scout patrolling and reporting to the Disciplinary Officer when such thing does occur. That's why I'm not worried about bullying at my son's school.
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
9 Sep 16
@toniganzon Actually the school has a campaign against bullying. If the office might know what happen, maybe the students might get suspended.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
@dyoizzz_lj there's no student body who roams around that guards the students?
Such incident is never allowed in my son's school as there is a strict implementation of the rules.
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
9 Sep 16
Yes, I know that. I told the teacher if the students do it again I will better report to the school and talk to their parents.
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
9 Sep 16
Kids can be really mean most of the time. This is sad. I was also bullied when I was a kid so I hope your son would be ok. It is good that you let his teacher know about it.
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
10 Sep 16
@lealuvy2j Yes, he is ok now. He told me that the whole class especially Paris has apologized to him.
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@MattMeng (3441)
• Hangzhou, China
9 Sep 16
@dyoizzz_lj Perhaps you should visit his home and talk about the relationship of your son and Paris with his parents.
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
10 Sep 16
@MattMeng Maybe I will talk to his parents
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
9 Sep 16
Yeah, he is really bad. My son keep on complaining Paris that he keep on pushing on him...
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
9 Sep 16
Good thing the teacher take note of it.
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@Janehuang0630 (25)
• Hangzhou, China
9 Sep 16
Fisrt of all as soon as possible to communicate with his tecacher,let her teacher to explain in class this is a understand,otherwise it will cause the pyhchological shadow to you son,at the same time tell you son he need express his anger boldly and maintain his reputation...
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@dyoizzz_lj (149)
• Angeles City, Philippines
9 Sep 16
@Janehuang Thanks! Yes, that is why he was crying so hard yesterday, he was trying to bring out his anger by means of crying.
@QueenAva (765)
• Nicosia, Cyprus
9 Sep 16
explain to him that he has to be strong, life is a a place where not every one will love you, tell him not to even care of what others are saying, he knwos who he is, he loves him self and his stronger than he could ever imagine, his wonderfull, his unigue, and he can be what ever he wants!. let him now, that you love him, you trust him, your proud of him and that you always as long as you live and be on that, youll be there for him always!
