I made a geocache at the cemetery my husband is buried
@shaggin (74987)
United States
September 23, 2016 3:38pm CST
Yesterday I drove to the cemetery to place a geocache I made where my husband is buried. I got there and realized I forgot the eyehook to screw into the tree.
I drove home and got it and drove back only to take the second road instead of the first.
I finally arrived at the cemetery and hung the geocache in the tree behind my husbands grave and went back home.
It was published this morning and was found by a friend around 2:30pm.
Now that I am getting notified of people finding it I'm getting really emotional.
I went bike riding and looked for a geocache this morning that I couldn't find.
I realized that the wedding my man is going to at the end of next month he likely won't take me to and so I'm feeling sick to my stomach about that.
My kids school had a half day today. I found a new easy geocache right after they got home. I made a yummy match green tea milkshake and am sitting outside on my rocker enjoying the nice weather. I'm trying to calm my nerves.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
23 Sep 16
Yes if you want to go you have to come right out and tell him. Why doesn't he want to take you?
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
23 Sep 16
For whatever reason I have always felt he is embarassed of being with me. He went to a really good friend of his's wedding about a year ago and didn't take me to that either. We broke up for a few weeks right after that him saying he just didn't have time for me. He said he should have taken me but it was at the last minute he decided to go. If he doesn't take me this time I will be ending our relationship for good. It doesn't even say on fb we are in a relationship because he said he never goes on so it shouldn't matter but thats not true he's on a lot!
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
23 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe I had a guy like that between when this guy and I broke up and got back together. We were broke up for about a year and I dated another guy for 6 months. I just felt nothing for him and eventually broke it off. He was sweet, went everywhere with me and everyone knew we were together. The feelings just weren't there for me.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
23 Sep 16
@shaggin that would bother me too. He should have no problem changing his status to in a relationship. I can see why you would want to end it. You deserve to be with a man who loves you and is proud to be seen with you.
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
23 Sep 16
A geocache is a hidden thing in the woods or wherever that you use an app and coordinates to find it. This was a small medicine bottle with a keyring on the top. I put camo duct tape around it and hid it in a tree facing the woods so only those truly looking for it would spot it.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
I am sorry , but what is a geocache , my friend ? I tried looking up at the dictionary of what t is but there's none .
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
25 Sep 16
Well he didn't say he doesn't want me to go but when he talks about the wedding he makes no mention of taking me and he usually never invites me to things. I couldn't stand wondering and being miserable and having anxiety over it anymore so I texted him last night and asked if he is taking me. That was at 10:47pm. I didn't text back so this morning at 11:19 I sent him "?" And its 3:42 and still no response. I'm guessing he's waiting until later after all the kids go to bed to respond as he probably knows its going to get ugly.
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@Drosophila (16568)
• Ireland
23 Sep 16
@shaggin awww just tell him to take you there, men respond better to directions. Just say "honey, you need to take me to this wedding, it is important to me" and be certain in your tone. He will comply
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@shaggin (74987)
• United States
23 Sep 16
@Drosophila Last time we broke up because he didn't take me to his good friends wedding. If he doesn't this time I'm done.
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