Is being stubborn and defiant a problem?

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I think for some I am hopeless.. I am stubborn and defiant.. The more you want me to do something, the more I refuse to do it... No matter what good it may bring... It will only work if I realize the goodness in something myself... If you want me to do something, don't ever tell me directly... I won't do it.. I will feel as though you are trying to bite a piece of flesh off me like a cannibal... or rather, I will purposely procrastinate and won't do it immediately.. I am not exaggerating..I have been like that since young.. I will always think, why should I follow what you want me to do? I should have a choice, cos it's MY life, not yours. Whatever consequences that follow, will you be taking the "bullet"? No, so don't interfere...Only I can decide what is best for me... It's XinfulThotz again... Explanation of XinfulThotz: Xinful sounds like "Sinful", Thotz sounds like "Thoughts" Last character of my Chinese name is "Xin". so Xinful means "belongs to Xin". Therefore XinfulThotz means Sinful thoughts that belongs to Xin