What would you do if you're in my position

Indonesia
October 6, 2016 3:01am CST
I liked a girl and I want her to be my girlfriend, we've known each other a long time and I actually liked him since the first meeting but then she has a boyfriend so I hid my feelings to her but now she's breaking up with her boyfriend but many other men who loved and in fact I think she liked me and it seems like she also knew that if I liked her, we often argued and she was happy near me I think she's waiting to express my feelings to her, in fact I really want him but when I wanted to express my feelings to her I felt if I unworthy of her because I have a possible shortfall if she knows my flaws he might not like it, so until now I have not been say although sometimes I wanted to say and sometimes I think she will not be a problem with the flaws because she is very good and I look she is so sincere liked me but I feel embarrassed to say, I was very confused in my position now I need a good suggestion to solve it.
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14 responses
@RitzzView (2994)
• India
7 Oct 16
Just go ahead and express your love to her!
• Trinidad And Tobago
6 Oct 16
You should let her know how you feel, but if she is now breaking up with her boyfriend br careful not to cone on too strong. You do not want to appear as if you are taking advantage of her.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
6 Oct 16
" no guts no glory " take it from me son!
@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
6 Oct 16
Hey buddy! How would you know if you won't at least try? What's the worse that could happen? She would say no? It wouldn't kill you. At least you wouldn't be wondering about the "what ifs?" later on and regret not telling her your feelings.
• United States
6 Oct 16
Why make life so difficult? If you like someone just tell them. They are either going to say yes or no. It's really not that big of a deal. If she likes you then she likes you and your flaws want matter to her. If they matter to her then she isn't worth your time no matter how much you like her.. You have to find someone that loves you for all of you perfections and imperfections.
@princemaxp (2027)
• Bhubaneshwar, India
6 Oct 16
tell her the whole truth.....if she loves you then she won't leave you.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Oct 16
If you can't say it in front of her , then do it through text .
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
6 Oct 16
Stop arguing with yourself. You don't know her thoughts. Show her your feelings and let her decide if she wants to be your girlfriend or not.
@LLSummer (586)
• Guizhou, China
6 Oct 16
My opinion is if you really love her you should let her know.you should tell what feeling in your heart to her.if i know someone really love in that way.i will accept him.
@franxav (13603)
• India
6 Oct 16
Express your feelings to her and wait.
@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
6 Oct 16
just let her know.
@shaynas (5488)
• India
6 Oct 16
Let her know your feelings !
• Agra, India
6 Oct 16
If you truly love her say what is in your heart.... Leave the rest to her Have the strength to accept the reality
• Ireland
6 Oct 16
If you never even tried you would regret it for the rest of your life! Take chances, and let her decide if she accepts you with your flaws! Chances that she has flaws as well that she would prefer to hide, but in a relationship you need to be open with each other! :)