Who would you say was the most influential person (besides family members) in yo

@gifana (4833)
Portugal
November 25, 2006 6:03pm CST
I have two people that I credit my success to. They were both teachers. The first was the one who taught me secretarial and accounting skills and encouraged me to seek my goal of joining the Foreign Service. The second was my girls’ Physical Education teacher and basketball coach. Sports was my way of “fitting in” with my peers. I wasn’t too popular among my peers because I was a tomboy…..I preferred to be playing sports then chit chatting with the girls and the boys tended to look at those “cute little things” with no brains. My coach taught the team one valuable lesson that I still adhere to in my senior years. “It matters not whether you win or lose it’s how you play the game”.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
18 Feb 07
Another one who had a couple of good and influential teachers. The first one was when I was in primary school in a very small town (village is actually too big a word for what it was) where I attended a 2 teacher school. I had the same teacher from Grades 2-6 and even after we left the district we still stayed in touch. He is now in his 70's but we still stay in contact a couple of times a year. He had a major influence on me, in that he was one of those teachers who encouraged students plus gave them incentive to learn. The other one was when I was in secondary school and she taught me "commercial subjects", i.e. typing, shorthand and book-keeping. I had her for 4 years as a teacher until I left school and she also had a way of encouraging her students. At the time we thought she was "ancient" and in fact had taught the mothers of some of the girls in my class. LOL Actually she wasn't all that old, but it turned out she was an excellent student who had been advanced a couple of years during her own schooling. She was in her first year at Teacher's Training in WWI and was released from her studies to go teaching and was only 15 at the time. This meant when she taught me she was actually in her early 60's, which I now know made her only "mature". She was one of those women who never forgot anyone and even when she saw me some years later, she knew who I was. In fact she met my father somewhere during the 1970's and asked him how I was going, what I was doing etc. I think she would have met him maybe once a year while I was one of her students. I still have my autograph book which she signed one year and put "Keep on Keeping on" with her signature. :)
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
6 Mar 07
It is good to remember the old times, as long as we don't live the old ways all the time gifana. My husband read a book a few months ago about a military veteran who had a lot of trouble over the years, due to what he had seen during his service. There was one phrase that stuck in my husband's mind and he repeats it regularly. It is "look back, but don't stare". I think that is most appropriate to everyone in this life, because we can look back and remember the times that were good but don't stare and try to relive them all the time. :)
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
15 Mar 07
What a wonderful phrase. I've added it to my list. Thanks so much for coming back and sharing that. Sorry it took me so long to get back but I'm having problems with Microsoft and my Windows which I now find out is counterfit. I'm getting a genuince copy but it will take up to 4 weeks to get it in order. Can you imagine with all the technology today that it would take so long. I paid for it last week and am still waiting for confirmation.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
2 Mar 07
I have no idea why I didnt comment on this before. I humbly apologize. In Maine we call such small towns a oil slick on the highway. The village where I was born had a population of under 500 on that day. but I'm sure that in Australia in the Outback these oil slicks could be tacks on the highway. I went to a two room schoolhouse for a year and a half when we lived in the country in the late 40's. I still think of Mrs. Galvin and her "limp". Those were the good old days. Actually I was in the 6th grade but I also paid attention to the 7th and 8th grades so it helped me at my next school. What a nice rememberance. I love that "Keep on Keeping On". I have made a note to tell a couple of my "football buddies"....12 and 13 yrs old. Hope you get to see this....since it has been so long. I was checking to see the latest response and found this one. Again sorry.
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• United States
20 Feb 07
The teacher wins everytime. Mine was a teacher named Mrs Bryson. I can hardly remember another teacher's neme but she has just never left my mind. The strange thing is, she was a tough teacher, no messing around in her class. You were there to learn and learn you would. Most kids were terrified of her. After I graduated, I worked as a substitute teacher alongside her. She was very supportive. A few years later she became Principal of the school my baby siters were attending. I had not kept in contact with her and I didn't know at the time, but one day my sisters and I were talking and they mentioned their 'new tough principal' and it turned they were talking about her. I was so happy because now I knew where she was. I commented that I was going to send her a note and my poor sisters got so freaked out they asked me not to mention that they were my sisters lol. They were afraid that she would start paying too much attention to them hehehe...I guess something they didn't want:) Mrs. Bryson! she was something else.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
2 Mar 07
Your Mrs. Bryson sounds a great deal like my 5th grade teacher and principal Miss Wright. Coming up through the other grades the older students told some great stories about her method of discipline and we were all terrified the first day we entered her class. One of the stories was that she had a leather strap with pins and needles in it that she whacked you across the knuckles if you didn't toe the mark. Well, it turned out that it was a gross exergeration but she was a disciplinarian and there was no messing around in her class. I got all A's but always had a comment added in "Comportment".....She tends to converse too much with her neighbors. My mother disciplined me for that. Thanks so much for dropping by and for your input.
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@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
27 Nov 06
Great discussion...again. I would also have to say teachers influenced me the most (outside my family). My shorthand and typing teachers gave me the skills that have carried me through some great jobs over the years and prepared me for the CPS Exam (Certified Professional Secretary). This is a 6-part, 2 day exam covering all facets of the secretarial field. I passed it the first time I took it. I had no intention of having to go through all that again. The teachers I had in school were, for the most part, great teachers. There was only one who was out of his league. He taught high school chemistry and should have taught on the college level. I had to tutor several football players so they could pass chemistry and remain on our football team. I could make them understand things that the teacher couldn't.
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• United States
27 Nov 06
I would have to say that the most influential people in my life were also teachers. The first would be my music teacher in high school. I was part of an audition-only singing group, and she always had us traveling places to sing. She helped me develop my voice and opened my world up to musical theatre. I also had a wonderful college English professor. She was so loving and caring, more than most professors. She was so understanding when my son became ill, and I had to miss class. She allowed me to make up my work away from the class, so I could take care of my son.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
27 Nov 06
Great input claudia.. I never took the CPS Exam. In my senior year the commercial teacher made us take the State Employment test for the mid-term exam and the US Govt Employment test for the final exam....Each exam counted as 50% of the yearly grade. I passed the first with a 96 and the second with a 98. Needless to say when I finished high school I had job offers from the State and interview offers from a couple of Government agencies. However, went to Junior College before I entered the government. If you wanna have some fun go to the following site and take an IQ exam....it is awesome. After you take it they will send you a two or three page email explaining just about everything about you and what your aptitudes are. There are 50 questions on just about everything...it takes a little time but it showed my what I didn't know. http://web.tickle.com/tests/uiq/index2.jsp
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
27 Nov 06
beatleslady. Thanks also for your input. Sounds marvelous. I was in the band, orchestra and glee club and we too travelled around . Sounds like yours was very interested in what she was doing. Have you done any professional singing. Appreciate your dropping by.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
2 Dec 06
good pic - nice pic
hey great discussion you alwyas starts!! anyway thanks fr this topic.. i was told by 3 persons. one of them is my teacher who is teaching me in college, second person is my chat friend she always talk with me for hours because no one listening her in the home:) and third one is my student ( I am teaching also ) so really feeling good at that time
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
2 Dec 06
It's always nice to have more than one influential person in your life. No one can go it alone and it's nice to know that we can go to someone who is willing to listen and pass on good advice. Appreciate your input and thanks for dropping by.
@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
3 Dec 06
Your welcome.
@lovedude (4447)
• India
2 Dec 06
thanks fr appropriation !!
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@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I'd say that one of my history teachers in high school was very influential. I really hated history before then, but I learned to study hard and got the highest grade in the class (99.7% one semester, and 99.5% the other). I took those lessons through to a lot of my classes and did much better and managed to get into college because of it. If I hadn't have been inspired to try harder, I probably wouldn't be in college now (even though currently, I'm hating college).
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
28 Nov 06
Great response. We tend to think that our family has the most influence on how we turn out. While the family is instrumental there can also be outside influences that can turn us around. Appreciate the input. Tnx
• India
29 Nov 06
NO BODY WAS VERY INFLUENTIAL IN MY LIFE BUT EVERY BODY IN MY CONTACT CONTRIBUTED TO MY LEARNING.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
29 Nov 06
In effect you're saying that you learned from others that there was no one particular person to whom you can point a finger at as the Most Influencia. I buy that. Appreciate your input.
• United States
27 Nov 06
I would have to say it was my 6th grade teacher, Mr. Riddle. He never played favorites. He was kind, caring and funny. It was from him that I learned that everyone is equal, everyone deserves a chance.
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
27 Nov 06
The lesson you learned is in some ways more important than just learning your abc's... So often we forget that there is more to learning what is on the written page. Appreciate your input. Tnx for dropping by.