Do people date anymore?

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I grew up thinking that a "date" consisted of a pair of people who like each other going out to eat, watching a movie, going bowling, or any other assortment of similar activities in an effort to get to know each other, or in effort to spend time with each other such as married people. Fast forward to my first actual date. Movie, and supper. My date made a point to talk about what a nice restaurant we were going to. I thought he was trying to impress me. Well, impress me he was - just not the impression I thought he was trying to make. When we get to the restaurant he told me that next time would be on me. That is how he preferred dating. (in that case I would have rather just gone dutch - keeps it more simple - but I digress) He further went on to stress the fact that he was "just ordering a sandwich" . I suppose I can't be mad at him. Maybe some other girls had really run up the bill for him in times past. How was he supposed to know that I would prove myself, waiting to order until he did so I could chose something similar in cost? Now I'm not bringing up this date of yor to cast any bad light on him. He was being up front with how he preferred to date - and he didn't know that I would mind my manners and order reasonably. But it was miles different than what my gal pals had described... flowers, fancy gifts, necklaces, earrings, fancy restaurants... not that I expected any of that. So while that wasn't a bad date, little did I know as time went on that date would seem like extreme luxury. I can't fault anyone in today's economy for being frugal. But I have noticed that the expectations have changed. It would seem more and more so that first date ideas - instead of dinner and a movie - have become more like , walking at a park, meeting at your/my place or, worse "driving around". I do not take offense at either of these ideas because they are free dates, rather I take offense because they are both rather private activities when you are meeting someone in person for the first time. So my question is this: do people older than say, 20, actually go on "dates" anymore?