fake people
@amitkokiladitya (171988)
Agra, India
November 10, 2016 10:26pm CST
I really cannot stand fake people..who offer their help only for the sake of Asking ....nothing more than that and with no inclination to help.
The help offered by them is only after more than half of the work has been completed..
If they have a true intention to render help it should be prior or at the start of work...not when the work us almost done.
And when you have such people in your house it's difficult to survive with them attimes...
How do you handle such people?
For me now I have decided to live my life and not bother about anyone else....she does not deserve my concern..its tried and tested many times.
I hope I can ease out things for me with this attitude.
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5 responses
@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
11 Nov 16
You need to take time just for yourself! 
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@MissNikki (5234)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
11 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya I'm sorry someone did not help you ...
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
@MissNikki lesson learnt once are lessons for life
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
Its not about time...
Its about a gentle attitude to return your favours when you need help
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
@toaqua I think you are right but it is human natutebto expect
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@toaqua (707)
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11 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya Well, for me I help other people without expectation of them helping me whenever I needed it so that I don't get disappointed. It's up to them if they do, that would be great.
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@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
11 Nov 16
Actually they aren't intending to help you,they just trying to be good with you.Such peoples too pass through problems when they need other's help.
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@PurnaSharma (2562)
• Guwahati, India
11 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya ..you should give befitting reply to those peoples.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
@PurnaSharma hmmm but it costs peace and silence of my house
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
Yes and then at that time they expect you to render help whole heartedly
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
18 Apr 20
@amitkokiladitya I have dealt with people like this on many occasions. I don't like when people make false promises. Or people who want to know what's wrong just to hear some gossip with no intention of actually helping or just being there to support you.
Only thing I can say it to talk / ask advice / ask for help from those you know who have shown their loyalty and proven they will be there to help. Otherwise yeah, like you said, if it can be done alone, can do it alone.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
18 Apr 20
@amitkokiladitya I don't blame you for that. I find that may be easier some times anyway.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
18 Apr 20
Yes...and now I know rather have learnt to manage things all on my own
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
19 Apr 20
@VivaLaDani13 yes...I understand
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
11 Nov 16
Yes so true.. Some people only asking, " what can I do for you?" but if we really ask something they slip away.. Disgusting
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
Yes....and having such people I your house is so irritating attimes
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
11 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya yeah... But I dont have such people at home. Because there only four of us here. But in my family there are lot of like that
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
11 Nov 16
@amandajay yes and attimes it just become difficult to stand them
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