family tensions
@amitkokiladitya (171988)
Agra, India
November 19, 2016 12:33am CST
How do you cope up when family atmosphere is tensed..
When members don't talk to each other ,they simply dont spend time together to the extent they don't even sit together.
Is it generation gap..
Is it always the younger ones who have to follow the rules..
What should be done if the younger generation is really hurt with their parents.
Especially a man who cares for his parents so much....
I'm really feeling sad for my husband.
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8 responses
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 16
@vaishu0106 - How does time heels family tensions? I am not clear.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
19 Nov 16
All I can do is let the time flow
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@prabir12345 (530)
• India
20 Nov 16
Try to know the test of others . If you can fulfil their test then I think tension will be less. If you can't try to avoid them or ignore them
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
20 Nov 16
@prabir12345 yes now I have started living my own life
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
20 Nov 16
All I want to tell them is live your life and let us live ours
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@prabir12345 (530)
• India
20 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya you are right. But don't take tension. It will affect on your body and mind .
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
21 Nov 16
I would like to say that younger ones should always be respectful to elders, come what may. If elders are not happy with younger ones, all should sit together and communicate with each other. Communication is must for sorting out any issue. Sitting idle or not talking to each other does not solve any kind of problem.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
22 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya - I can understand that sometimes elders just do not want to listen to youngsters. However, younger ones should still try to put across their point of view and try to convince elders. One should not lose heart and keep trying, keeping one's ego aside.
All the best.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
21 Nov 16
What if others doby want yo understand the point if youngest and are imposing their thoughts a belief on them
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@xstitcher (39002)
• Petaluma, California
19 Nov 16
Thankfully, that has not happened in my family. Much of my family lives far away, but I can't see us getting into big disputes for the most part.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
20 Nov 16
Thats really a blessing..
But when we stay together these things pop up
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@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
19 Nov 16
oh i'm bit sryy to know that. never mind just try to relax others by making some funny jokes bt mind don't make them angry.
when it is the husband's case never mind he should look after his parents as well and there is no prob in it. just try to see the positive side of everything that will help you a lot
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
19 Nov 16
Yes but the problem is that his parents are being unsupportive
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@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
19 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya hmm then it is terrible. i hope all thses things become okay sooner
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
19 Nov 16
My husband alao the same. He is the youngest and he always take care of eveything
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
21 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya mpst of the time i keep quiet... Because if i open my mouth it willbe a big issue
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
19 Nov 16
Then how do you cope with family tensions if they occur
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
19 Nov 16
Yes no doubt time is the best healer
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
23 Apr 20
@amitkokiladitya I don't do so well when there is tension. I've always been that way. It makes my stomach hurt and sometimes makes me wish I could run away. I am the youngest and I've had MANY occasions where I felt like I was the adult to try and take care of everything and everyone.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Apr 20
@amitkokiladitya That's so true and it's really sad and unfair.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
24 Apr 20
@VivaLaDani13 yes...I understand. and I'm so sorry that you have to face all this.
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@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
24 Apr 20
Yes. This is so true. The younger ones are often loaded with a lot of responsibility and this is what makes them feel so burdened
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