Any thoughts on this?
@bookie0321 (2)
November 26, 2016 10:28am CST
It has come to my attention that someone who was once my friend is talking bad about me. The bad part about it is i heard it from someone they do not like. I have tried to be nothing but good to this person. I looked out for them even when i couldnt look out for myself. I just feel like people really do take your kindness for weakness. I feel like now i dont want to be mean but i dont want to be so nice to others now. Am i wrong for feeling this way?
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@BRiT89 (162)
• United States
26 Nov 16
I don't think you are wrong for feeling that way, but at the same time don't let one or a few people make you change yourself. Kindness to others is the way to go no matter what. First of all, I think you should maybe sit down with your friend who is doing things that aren't making you happy. Don't let rumors break a friendship. Hopefully when y'all talk you can get to the bottom of everything and continue your friendship. You said it was someone who your friend doesn't even like.. maybe he/she really does like them. If you don't want to try and work things out, that is perfectly okay too. Just don't let it change you in a way that you become afraid of trusting others. It could make you miss out on a true friendship. Not everyone is the same and you can certainly believe that you will meet people who would bend over backwards for you.
@CoolPeace (1563)
• Miami, Florida
26 Nov 16
Don't let this person stop you from trusting others because not everyone is like that.
