the c word
By Elizabeth
@Poppylicious (11134)
United Kingdom
December 6, 2016 3:26am CST
Far far ago {2014 to be precise} my MiL had just under half a lung removed. She'd been a constant twenty-a-day smoker since her teens {it's okay, she gave up for both her pregnancies, managing to survive without a ciggie till the day she gave birth} and it had finally caught up with her in the form of - SURPRISE!! - cancer.
She didn't want any other treatment and it wasn't pushed on her, so she only had the surgery. My MiL only ever hears what she wants to hear, so believed she was cured, ignoring words like remission. She didn't return to smoking again, but she does enjoy her vaping.
Since September she's been coughing. Some Loyal Readers may remember I wrote a post about how she wouldn't go to the GP or ring her nurse at the specialist Hospital. Even when she did go to the GP she was only given antibiotics and didn't bother going back when it became apparent they did nothing to help her.
When she began coughing up a lot of blood on Sunday night, my BiL whisked her off to Hospital.
You can probably guess the rest ...
SURPRISE!!
Cancer came back.
Will he stay? Will he take her away? Who knows. She's home, waiting for an appointment to find out how bad it is this time and what her options are. Husband says she sounds surprisingly positive, which is just weird.
Christmas may be cancelled.
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@WorDazza (15826)
• Manchester, England
7 Dec 16
@Poppylicious Possibly a defence mechanism. She's trying to persuade herself as much as anyone else!
I hope it turns out well for her.
@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 16
She probably downplayed her symptoms, knowing my MiL. Also, we don't know what the GP said. She has a way of twisting things ... I've been with her when she's been told something, only for her to tell someone else something completely different to what I heard the person say to her!
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
6 Dec 16
Cancer can be cruel. She has probably known for some time that this is a possibility. A positive attitude can go a long way in keeping people going. Don't cancel Christmas just yet.
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 16
She's normally quite negative ... I wondered if knowing for sure has given her something to focus on.
@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
7 Dec 16
@Poppylicious that could explain her response.
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@arthurchappell (44941)
• Preston, England
6 Dec 16
so sad, hope she is able to fight it - to me vaping is smoking and though not as dangerous it still is not healthy
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
6 Dec 16
I completely agree. There isn't yet enough evidence yet to say if vaping is a disease-free pastime either.
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@xFiacre (14787)
• Ireland
6 Dec 16
@poppylicious A whole mixture of stuff going on there. People don't always make life as easy as it could be. Blessings on you all.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
7 Dec 16
this news saddens me, hon. though t'was her choice, others must endure the consequences with her. i'll be keepin' all'n my thoughts. sendin' healin' hugs!










