Need Advice Urgently .... Somebody Help Please

By VJ
New Delhi, India
December 10, 2016 3:04am CST
FRIENDS.... I am stuck.... Literally....This does not happen to me often but it has and so I don't know what to do.... There is this friend whom I just came to know....She used to talk but things were a little complicated with me personally so I cudnt respond back well.... She recently was not well....I have been messaging and wanting to discuss but off late she has not been responding.... Maybe I have just offended her or something but I don't even know that.... I have been very open , apologizes and communicated that this is very uncomfortable.... This does not happen with me very often that a friend doesn't respond so I don't know what to do....May be its my karma getting back bt I concerned.....Can someone advice...
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yuanxing
@inter4 (319)
• Nanjing, China
10 Dec 16
Invite her to have a meal, and during the meal,you can explain to her about the reason why you sometimes didn't respond back. I think it's not a big deal, you can solve it. This is my suggestion.
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VJ
@Magicweaver1 (343)
• New Delhi, India
10 Dec 16
Thanks.... I think this should work but even the invitation needs a response.... ::((
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yuanxing
@inter4 (319)
• Nanjing, China
10 Dec 16
@Magicweaver1 Can you invite her in person ?
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Ashna Mehta
@jesroash (760)
• India
22 Mar 17
Maybe you should just wait. Give here some space. She might come around. Good luck!
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Ashna Mehta
@jesroash (760)
• India
26 Mar 17
@Magicweaver1 Take care!
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VJ
@Magicweaver1 (343)
• New Delhi, India
22 Mar 17
She just hasn't Ashna....just hasn't. ..But I'll wait and that's how life is....Patience is a virtue and I am trying to practice it.... And yes you are right that I should give her some space...Thanks a lot for the advice friend.... Keep shining and smiling.... Happiness to you always.... :)
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Sky
@skysnap (20154)
•
10 Dec 16
give her space and i am sure she'll respond
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The Horse
@TheHorse (206140)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Dec 16
Send an email or text and ask if she's OK.
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DEV D
@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
26 Mar 17
I guess you should contact her friend and send your message through them
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5488)
• India
11 Dec 16
May be she is just busy or occupied in something else, just not getting a chance to reply. Wait for few days before you do anything.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5488)
• India
11 Dec 16
@Magicweaver1 all the best :)
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VJ
@Magicweaver1 (343)
• New Delhi, India
11 Dec 16
I'll surely do that dear.... That's how it should be I think. ...::))
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snowy
@snowy22315 (170268)
• United States
14 Dec 16
Yes, Asking if she is OK is a good move. It is showing concern. IF she doesn't respond back after a time..I think you have your answer. I think she will get back to you though.
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