I've fallen out of love

@Ladera (340)
United States
December 14, 2016 7:41pm CST
I like someone else. I like her. I don't wanna lie to myself any longer. I don't want to keep this inside me anymore b'cause I feel like I will explode deep inside. I have a girlfriend and she treats me very well. She loves me. I've felt this long time ago but I thought I might regain the feelings back. I am so confused. I can't tell them honestly. I can't tell them. I don't want to keep this anymore, I can just at least write somewhere where nobody knows me personally. I am so lost at the moment. I am usually a happy person but not today.
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8 responses
UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Dec 16
I know how you feel. I fell out of love with my husband a long time ago but still together. I live a double love life because I know deeply he is cheating on me. Waiting on more proof before I leave him.
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Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Dec 16
I'm sorry to hear this...you are a strong woman. Why don't you talk to him about this?
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
15 Dec 16
@amitkokiladitya I have but he don't listen
Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
It's been a while, got so busy with work stuff and all but I am glad to hear some comments from you guys! @carebear29, your comment makes me sad as well. What are other proofs that you're waiting by the way? That's really a sad thing. :( As for me, I think I was just confused that time and today, I am perfectly happy again with the best girl in the world. My girl.
Tammy
@tammys85 (29951)
• Baltimore, Maryland
6 Jan 17
I know you don't want to hurt her, but I don't think it would be fair to either of you to not be honest.
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Tammy
@tammys85 (29951)
• Baltimore, Maryland
31 Jan 17
@Ladera You're welcome, and I hope all is well.
Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
Thanks a lot for this. I just confirmed to myself that that was only a confusion in my part. I am so glad.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
21 Dec 16
i think you should tell her how you feel. it is not good to keep secrets because it will hurt your girlfriend more once she knows you have fallen out of love from her
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 Jan 17
@Ladera which one? your girlfriend, or the other girl that you are falling in love with?
Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
Thanks a lot! We had a little vacation and I realized I couldn't love any other person but her.
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Jen
@polyxena (2628)
• Sturgis, Michigan
15 Dec 16
It's tough choice, my opinion is to let her know how you feel. THere's nothing wrong with telling your girlfriend that you fell out of love with her. It happens to everyone from time to time.
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Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
Yes,that's true. Good thing we spent so much time with each other lately and I realized that that was only a confusion in my part.
Manisha
@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
15 Dec 16
It happens...many of us fall out of love...your human. I hope you can make the choice that is best for you.
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Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
Thank you so much! I hope you stay in love with your partner! :)
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Jules
@Julie555 (4155)
• Russian Federation
15 Dec 16
Hmmm.Very sad.It will hurt her
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Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
I know. I was an idiot. But now I realized I couldn't love anyone but her. We're okay now. Thank you!
The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5488)
• India
29 Jan 17
I think you should let her know. It will hurt her for the moment, for few days, but then she will be spared of a life spending with someone who doesn't love her!
Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
15 Dec 16
This is sad...I hope you are soon able to solve this complication...stay strong.
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Lucas
@Ladera (340)
• United States
29 Jan 17
Thanks a lot! Yes I have solved it already! Thank you!