To friend or not to friend

December 28, 2016 3:12am CST
Is making new friends ( meeting new people online or chat rooms with a clear status of meeting new friends only) really bad in a relationship? is it consider as cheating your gf / bf or your other half? its not like your meeting them for real or making plans to date them... just to have a good conversation and learning things in another people's perspective in life.
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@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
28 Dec 16
Not at all..if you are loyal to your other half and both of you trust each other that's most important in a relation.. making friends is always a good thing..It is not bad in a relationship just trust is needed to build a good relation
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@shaynas (5488)
• India
28 Dec 16
@Anshu246 You talked so mature instead of being do young
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@Anshu246 (1076)
• Patna, India
28 Dec 16
@shaynas thank u so much..:-)
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@shaynas (5488)
• India
28 Dec 16
It's not cheating. Even making real friends is not cheating. You just should not hide anything from your partner, that's it.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
19 Jan 17
Some bf/gf are very possessive and jealous and are suspicious of everything. These kind of people want to know everything and control everything. I would run from these as they only spell trouble for the future. Of course, if we are spending too much time with online friends and neglecting our bf/gf then that is also not healthy.
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• Philippines
5 May 17
Of course it's not cheating..unless you start flirting with them. You never know when you need friends in times of need. But be careful whom you be friendly with.
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5 May 17
Yeah I know. Its nice to talk and spend time with friends. But its kind of weird when a friend starts to have other feelings than being friends only.
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
28 Dec 16
No you're not cheating. If your intention is pure friendship only then you are not doing anything bad. It's normal ti make friends. Just tell your partner that you're chatting someone or Makibg friends with someone to avoid misunderstanding. I admire the guys who tell their partner everything.
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29 Dec 16
my boyfriend knows about it. he actually encourage it. ^_^ he said he trust me that much. Im a very straight and forward person. i tell right away the status of my relationship when asked. other people gets it. but some made a judgement already that its cheating. im feeling sad for them.
@deadreak (653)
• Dagupan City, Philippines
28 Dec 16
Of course not making friend its either online or in personal is not bad, understanding is needed if somethings like that.
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