My father came from South Africa after years.... Just visited us only for an hour..... Im worried

@amandajay (23262)
New Zealand
December 31, 2016 1:41pm CST
My father is working abroad now. He worked for Export Agriculture Department in Srilanka and he applied for his retirement early and went Africa as he got a job offer from their. This was long time back... So after few years he came to srilanka yesterday morning and my husband and daughter went to pick him from the Airport... He came here had his lunch and went.... Im so upset. He could have stayed here atleast for one day. Even my daughter told him to stay. Bit he refuced... Actually the thing is, my parents got separated when I was just 7 years and he got married to a witch again. (They are having a son now. ) so that stupid lady dont allow him to meet me, and even dont allow me to visit them. This is irritating... He is my father after all... I have more rights on him than her... But that witch has spelled on him and now even he doesnt care about me. Im so sad and upset. I feel like killing her sometimes... But what to do. I decided to keep away from them... If you were me, what do you do?
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• United States
31 Dec 16
I'm sorry to hear that.. Did he visit with his wife or just alone? If alone he shouldn't be afraid of her. He should definitely stayed or spend time longer since he's been awhile for years
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• United States
1 Jan 17
@amandajay Where did he head off to? And that's so rude of him. Do you think he'll visit tomorrow?
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
1 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby he went kandy. Its their home. I mean where he live with that witch
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
31 Dec 16
He came alone.. Yes he could have stayed with us.. But sometimes I think that he doesnt have backbone to face that witch... Or may be he is cursed by that lady
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31 Dec 16
It's complicated...
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
31 Dec 16
Not complicated... He is cursed... Thats what I know
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31 Dec 16
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
31 Dec 16
@TheInvisibleMan hmm yes.. I hope you know what I mean
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@AmbiePam (121278)
• United States
1 Jan 17
I am so sorry. If you've already sat him down and explained how you feel then I don't know what else you can do but pray. I know that's not much advice. I feel for you.
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
1 Jan 17
Yes... I wonder how he behave like this.. Thats why I said he is spelled... Otherwise how could a father ignore his one and only daughter
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
2 Jan 17
I am so sorry. That is a horrible situation to be in. He may have a new life now, but you are his daughter. I'm sure you spoke to him and told him how you felt. I'm so sorry. I will say a prayer for you. Perhaps he will come to his senses.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
2 Jan 17
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
2 Jan 17
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@amandajay (23262)
• New Zealand
2 Jan 17
Yeah I hope god will help him to come to his senses... Thats alot for the concern... Pray for us and I need your prayers... Thanks again
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