Thrashed but used ..
By Life_is_Fun
@smileyhema (4463)
United States
January 27, 2017 1:31pm CST
Sometimes we will have to stand by few people who actually does nothing for you rather they use you for the improvement in their life.
Definitely it will feel like being thrashed when you know they actually use you. It's hard to digest this.
Have you come across such situations when you are used by someone? How do you overcome those days?
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
24 Jun 19
@smileyhema I really hate it to the max when people use me or use others. It's not very nice at all! I prefer to keep away from those people. Right after I tell them how selfish they are!
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
26 Jun 19
That's true. It spoils the relationship, isn't it?
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
27 Jun 19
@VivaLaDani13 As you'd mentioned, it's better to move away from them.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
26 Jun 19
@smileyhema Oh it does completely! I agree with you there!
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
30 Jan 17
Yeah.. well said .. I've asked this question to myself - have I taken advantage of a person and used them?? I'm not sure of the answer. Perhaps, it should be decided by the other person.. what do you think? Have you used someone in any situation knowingly or unknowingly??
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
29 Jan 17
Yes,I know how painful such experiences are.I still remember how a man used me only to grind his ax and abandoned me when his purpose was served.
@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
30 Jan 17
That's so bad of a person. Sometimes, we will have to develop the art of identifying who will use us. I'm sure in couple of initial instances itself we would know. Perhaps, we should then start ignoring them for a while.. what you think?
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
31 Jan 17
@smileyhema I ultimately identified the man,but not before it was too late.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
27 Jan 17
Everyone living long enough will have such an experience. Maybe it is something we never overcome.
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
26 Jun 19
As you said, it is an art to learn to overcome those people.
