Who is really getting the steal in the deal?

@lokisdad (4226)
United States
February 6, 2017 10:10am CST
Who is really getting the steal in the deal is the question you should be asking yourself when considering home ownership. Ownership has its perks but its not exactly what you imagine when you day dream about it. Owning a home is great for people who are looking to start a family and want to settle down and plant some roots. However everything comes at a cost. What are you looking to spend and what can you get with what you have? Will you be able to find everything you desire and what if anything will you have or be willing to compromise on? Location plays a huge part in decision making. If you are going to spend upwards of $50k minimum for a place choose wisely. This will be a long term investment and you need to not only have your needs met but you need to find a small amount of emotional reward from it as well. Yes you will have a place that is your's no more asking permission when deciding on interior design or if you are going to have someone come for an extended stay. Yes to the pets but remember you have to take the good with the bad. Along with that freedom of creative decision making that comes with ownership also comes the headaches of the financial burdens of repairs or cost of regular maintenance. Fire place needs regular maintenance, Septic tanks need emptying periodically, roofs/ gutters need cleaning,lawns maintained, pest control etc. When you factor those things in the numbers grow exponentially. Consider everything before assuming its a steal for you. A list will be helpful and these are some things you might want to ask and answer to help decide. Is it a home and land package deal? Where is it located(Property Value)? Is this a Good neighborhood low crime rate fairly conveniently located enough to have decent amount of privacy? Size of home on the property as well as the condition of it.Is it a fixer upper or is it a money pit? What needs to be done immediately? What will it cost me? Will the value of my investment increase or decrease over time? If I purchase this after factoring in the numbers will I be able to live comfortably and be happy as well as healthy? If you are buying a home and you work to pay for it and do nothing but spend the money just to keep it livable and you do nothing but work and come home to make repairs which is more work it will not be a good decision. Which in a situation as such you wouldn't be a steal for you. It would be like buying a lemon which will leave a sour taste behind. Buying a home is a big commitment make sure that before you even begin the process that you have a portion of the emergency repair cost already saved. These funds should be extra in your budget not counting your down payment or other moving expenses.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Feb 17
I actually prefer renting-when it's a good landlord. The landlord we have now is great, he allows us to have our dogs and do whatever we want to the place. No asking permission for anything. I am sure it helps that my husband owns a remodeling company so he knows it will look professional when finished with the project. And whenever a repair comes up-we are not responsible for the bill of it. For my family renting is the better choice.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
6 Feb 17
I had a small place that was occupied so we rented ourselves in a larger place and it kind of sucked. Some of the landlords we had were pretty strict and wanted no changes not even peeling contact paper. Others who wouldn't make repairs in a timely fashion if at all. Now if you are lucky enough to get a decent landlord then the renting experience can be quite pleasant. Oddly enough I am an animal lover but my rentals were not pet friendly due to location and other times because of the risk for damage.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Feb 17
@lokisdad I told my husband if my dog isn't allowed I'm not interested. That is an absolute must for anywhere we rent. Our dog is fully house trained so there wouldn't be any damage from her-no reason for her not to be welcome. Unless you see her you wouldn't even know she's here. We have had some slumlords in the past but thank God the one we have now is a good landlord and he isn't picky at all.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
6 Feb 17
@LovingMyBabies I have a pet but my wife won't allow any animals inside she does make an exception for bad weather otherwise he remains outside. i have well behaved animals luckily they have all been good tempered but before I worked many long days and I would come home to accidents for which nobody was to blame. The fur gets everywhere when they shed plus asthma and allergies just better to have them outside. Today I put together a new dog house which I have turned around and sold because it wasn't large enough even though its for a large breed dog. At this point I think the best thing to do is do what my wife suggested just build him a custom dog house. That was a big issue with renting the pet deposit and breed restrictions when we rented.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
7 Feb 17
Living our own apartment is my choice rather than rented apartments..
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
7 Feb 17
You own it? In a complex or its own individual unattached living area. I don't like having neighbors too close I like privacy for my family.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
7 Feb 17
@shshiju sweet deal having neighbors isn't all bad if you can find some that are nice and not nosy or noisy. I have not had such luck I have always had neighbors that drove me nuts for one reason or another. I remember once I had a candle lit in the bathroom and she said that she thought it was a fire and was going to kick the door in. Like wtf? Smh people can be a little crazy.
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@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
7 Feb 17
@lokisdad It is a private home
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
14 Mar 17
Yes it is important to decide what you are wanting in a home when deciding to purchase one. And decide how many rooms etc especially if you are planning on having kids. But here in this area, you would have a Dump if you only paid $50,000. So I guess it depends where you live at.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
14 Mar 17
Yes and what many of us don't take into consideration is the cost of living where we are living as well. Here 50k can get you a decent double wide mobile home.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
9 Feb 17
Great tips. Where I live I do not pay rent. I pay all the bills any any repairs. My parents own the home and this year I am paying the taxes on it. My boyfriend feels our house is to small for all of us so he wants to buy a house for us all to move into. That is very scary for me to give up how good I have it here at this house. If I give this up my sister and her 4 kids will move in and if things do not work out with boyfriend I will have no where to go back to. He wants property with a lot of land to it so it is going to wind up costing him an extra 150,000 basically as the land is what is costly here not the homes.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
9 Feb 17
@lokisdad In the past when things have not worked out there is nothing worse then staying there with that person. You just want to get away from them so you don't have to see them anymore.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
9 Feb 17
@shaggin its like being stuck at a job you hate that doesn't pay well and don't get along with your coworkers.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
9 Feb 17
You have stability and security leaving it you take a really huge risk. I guess it would really depend on the relationship. Maybe you can get an agreement notarized stating that if things don't go well that you are able to stay there for a year which should allow you enough time to save and move.
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
8 Feb 17
Buying a home is a big investment and it was all about location and the school district for us. We love our home, and also committed to a vacation condo in Florida. If I couldn't be on a body of water, I wouldn't want it. Location again.
@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
8 Feb 17
We are in a very quiet area and the schools are okay.The only thing that kind of really sucks is that shopping locations are not close by. I guess you can't have it all. Location is very important if you aren't happy then it doesn't matter much because you are not happy.
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@lokisdad (4226)
• United States
9 Feb 17
@DianneN We are about 10 miles from any place. The kids couldn't be any happier so we suck it up. Although we really do love it here because of the peace and quiet and privacy.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
8 Feb 17
@lokisdad We are two miles from our supermarket, but have a couple of farm markets in our area. There are no commercial businesses allowed in our town. As long as we have a car, we are good to go. Yes, there are pros and cons. We are both lucky to have a house anywhere.