Telling ‘lies’, without understanding its impacts!

@Sreekala (34312)
India
February 10, 2017 2:40am CST
I think telling a ‘lie’ is common for all. Sometimes the situation demands it sometimes it may help to escape from a dangerous situation upto to a certain period of time. However, ultimately truth can’t hide for ever. Here I am not discussing about the honesty but something different. My younger son is in class IV and going to his school by a private van. Yesterday, the van driver made a call to my hubby telling, he is from school for picking up the children after school hours as usual but the boy is not in the school. He asked have you taken him from the school. My hubby became panicked as the same person took our son in morning and in the afternoon how can he says like that. Since both of us are in office, believing the van driver is responsible for picking him back. He asked the driver to search him in school itself without cutting the phone. But the phone got disconnected and trying to connect the number back it become switched off. Soon my son called him from school reception telling the van uncle has not come yet, we are (other children who accompany in his van) waiting for him in the reception. Later we found out that the van driver has not reached school, his van breakdown in the middle and he just played foul. But his ‘lies’ were so costly and made us devastated for some time. Today we sent him in another van, can’t trust this type of irresponsible people any more.
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@skysnap (20152)
10 Feb 17
this does sound like a problem indeed.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Feb 17
If he did not call then also there was no problem. Our son would called up himself either of us and asked to pick him. But this driver made the situation worse.
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@skysnap (20152)
10 Feb 17
@Sreekala very complicated.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Feb 17
@skysnap He made it complicated sadly
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@spaceseed (2843)
• India
11 Feb 17
I have seen almost four decades of life........yet I cant tolerate if anyone lie
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Feb 17
I tool don't tolerate lies. But I can pardon those lies which does not make any bad impact.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
11 Feb 17
and backbinding is also really painfull
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Feb 17
My goodness, how could he resort to lying in that situation. He should have rather just told you the truth so you could do some remedial action without worrying that much.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Feb 17
Yes, if he told the truth then there was no problem. We could easily take steps to pick him from school. This month he already gone missing two days in the morning, his mobile switched off so we were already upset on his nature. Now he did this great mistake. Just imagine we are sitting in office and getting a call telling our son is not seen in school
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Feb 17
@Sreekala Indeed, he can't be trusted.
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