Even if.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
February 19, 2017 6:46pm CST
They're blaming me for causing my mom stressful moment, I am the one working on her lab test, medicines, and blood transfusion. They still calling me even if I'm resting. They keep sending me text about this and that. And I'm tired.
Do they still know I am sick as well? That I need more time for myself. I'm tired working for her and still no appreciation. And I'm still hearing them blaming me.
And mother is so insensitive about that ever since. When she was still okay, I work for myself and I'm not depending on them. From food to my medicines, even taking care of the two kids. While she just sit there, watch tv the whole day.
Until now she's irresponsible mother. She needs to work for herself so that she will recover. But it looks like she still wants to be pampered. Sometimes I hate my life. I should be the one blaming her because I got this sickness from her.
Photo is mine.
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@allen0187 (59692)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
So sorry to hear about your current condition. Do remember that tough times don't last, tough people do.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
Okay relax, take a deep breath and everything will be okay.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
20 Feb 17
If she's able to take care of herself, then make her do it. You do not have to do so much for someone who can do for themselves.. and there's no reason to feel guilty if you don't.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
20 Feb 17
@JustBhem You poor thing.. I do think you need to start putting yourself first!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
20 Feb 17
@katsmeow1213
As much as I want to but I can't. Nobody will do those things except me.
@Letranknight2015 (52665)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
I don't what will I do in that situation. Oh, reminds me when we were taking care of Grandma. But let me tell you that you're doing GREAT for helping your mother @JustBhem . It would be negative to just leave and walk away giving in to their hateful remarks, but you chose to sacrifice and that's something they can never do. Perhaps when you die, they will regret the things they said and done. But for now, do the best you can. She did gave birth to you and you owe her that at least. LIke they said, be strong.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
20 Feb 17
why are you not in harmony with your mother and siblings? is anything bothering you? i hope you will settle your differences
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
21 Feb 17
@JustBhem being sick should not be a reason of indifference among family members. if it is so, then i would also be ostracized by my family, but it is not for me.
@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
20 Feb 17
I am so sorry you are dealing with that. Stay strong. I am sorry you are not well also but expected to care for you mother. Is there anybody else who could help out?
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