Double date weirdness.
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
United States
February 27, 2017 7:13am CST
I wrote a post about how my best friend told me that she is falling for my first love of 10 years ago and that I was a little weirded out by it at first. Well a few days ago my husband and I along with our munchkin met up with my ex and my best friend for pizza and then later on played cards and watched TV together. I saw them getting a little cuddly and flirty with one another. It was cute and odd all at once lol. I'm happy for them, really I am. It kinda did bring back how he was with me though years and years ago. But I couldn't ask for a better life with my loving husband and father of our child.
I know I shouldn't care at all since we are all friends now, but I guess it just seems so odd that they like each other NOW after knowing each other for quite some time. She claims she feels "bad" for kind of throwing it in my face, but she shouldn't since I don't care who they date since I have my own happy relationship. The only thing that irritates me is she respected "the girl code" and told me she wouldn't be after him since she knows how I did feel about him at one point. I guess I felt she was being a bit hypocritical, but whatever.
As long as they are both happy I guess.
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
27 Feb 17
You have moved on so let them do what they want to
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Feb 17
I am letting them lol. I am not doing anything to come between them or stop them at all.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@amitkokiladitya I am thank you.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 Feb 17
It is only natural to feel awkward and weird even though you are with somebody else now and completely happy. I think anybody would. As time goes on though it will be less awkward.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Feb 17
Yeah that's what I am hoping. I know I shouldn't care at all since it's been over for 10 years. But I think it's more so that he's with someone close to me. I don't know.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Feb 17
@Happy2BeMe I'm glad someone else can empathize somewhat :-)
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 Feb 17
@DanieGirl80587 I would think that is exactly what it is. I know I would feel the same way in that situation.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Feb 17
It is a tiny bit awkward lol, but they seem compatible and happy, so I am just letting them be.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
Everything is just fine except her assuming about your feelings, think it would pass and I hope all of you would be happy in the end.
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@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
27 Feb 17
I think my feelings are fairly normal. I am not doing anything to jeopardize their happiness. They know I am happily married. I guess I feel you just never forget that first love that's all and I am happy we are able to be friends still.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Mar 17
There was a singer from an Asian country who became the Godfather of his ex wife's son to her new husband. She have 2 daughters with him. His new wife is best friend with his ex. Talka bout awkward family reunions.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)
• Calgary, Alberta
13 Mar 17
@DanieGirl80587 For sure it is a nice thing to see your present and past getting along but it is weird. 
Speaking of exes, My ex named her dog after me,It is a very ugly looking rotweiller.
Speaking of exes, My ex named her dog after me,It is a very ugly looking rotweiller.1 person likes this
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
16 Mar 17
@CaptAlbertWhisker Wow. She must really hate you haha.
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
13 Mar 17
It's actually pretty scary how much my husband and my ex get a long so well. Took some time, but it all works now! Lol.
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@ihasaquestion (8274)
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7 Aug 18
Me thinks the weirdness comes from insecurity. I don't give a hoot for awkwardness; what's weird is avoidance. The past can't be changed. Even a moron knows that. So, set aside those feelings and just be you.
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
8 Aug 18
Um ok. They broke up over a year ago lol. This post from from FEB of 2017. They only lasted 6 months lol, And I am no longer friends with that girl and it's not because of my ex.
And don't call people morons. Not nice.
@DanieGirl80587 (2713)
• United States
10 Aug 18
@ihasaquestion I told you not to call people morons because it isn't nice. I never said you can't answer an old discussion. I simply answered the question and told you that it's an old discussion and isn't relevant anymore. YOU need to chill.
@ihasaquestion (8274)
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9 Aug 18
@DanieGirl80587 I'm not saying anyone is. It's a general term like example, even the blind knows that. Chill. By the way, I can answer discussions from years back even if I want to. MyLot doesn't say you have to answer current discussions only. Not nice telling others what to do.
