I Found Out That My BF Is Cheating...Again

Quezon City, Philippines
February 27, 2017 5:03pm CST
Hey guys. So i found out that my boyfriend is cheating.. again. I'm just thinking about getting revenge on the other girl, and of course to him as well. I have kept my mouth shut and did not say anything to the other girl the first time they did this to me. I want to ask your opinion guys because I really do get good and sensible advice here in myLot. I'm planning to post their affair on Facebook, so that everyone will know that they're cheaters and they will be embarrassed about it. I have evidences since i have screenshots of their conversation on Mesenger, Viber, SMS, etc. What should I do?
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7 responses
AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104632)
• United States
27 Feb 17
Are you really any better than they are if you air their dirty laundry? A man who cheats on a woman he is in a relationship with, is not an honorable man. You deserve better and should leave him. I know this isn't something you want to hear, but if he lovd you he wouldn't be cheating on you. He's being disrespectful and if he respected you he would end the relationship. I think tha tyou shoud end the relationship. I wouldn't even bring up his infidelities, don't let him know that you have found out, and that it has gotten to you. Simply tell him it's time for you two to split, that the relationship isn't what it used to be. I am sorry that you have been cheated on. It has happened to me as well, and it hurt so much. I didn't lash out against the other girl though. You will respect yourself more if you take the upperhand and simply walk away.
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k-lyn
@klynlyn (154)
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9 Jun 17
i think it is better to just leave him and go on with your life. Revenge isn't for humans but for God so you must have faith in HIm and he will give justice to what he'd done to you one way or another.
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ShannyBananny
@shaggin (71670)
• United States
28 Feb 17
If you want to ever work things out with this guy in the future then I would not do what you are planning. Since this is the second time he has cheated I think you should end your relationship with him as he is not worth being with if he is going to be a repetitive cheater. You may get in trouble if you post the screen shots on there but you could post that your boyfriend cheated on you and then tell the people who asked privately the details.
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allen0187
@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
10 Jul 17
Dump the guy and move on. The best revenge is showing that you are better off without him.
paigea
@paigea (35767)
• Canada
5 Mar 17
Someone cheated on me a long time ago. I got rid of him and I am very glad I did that. The best revenge is living well without them.
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k-lyn
@klynlyn (154)
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9 Jun 17
yea, i think you did a good decision on that.
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josefina
@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
1 Mar 17
I can understand your anger and feelings of betrayal, but revenge is a two edge blade. It cut both ways. Just end the relationship and move on.
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Cait Tallon
@skydream (1446)
• Agate, Colorado
27 Feb 17
If your revenge is just posting it on facebook I would probably do that. If it's anything other than that I wouldn't. I think it's fine to let everyone know they're cheaters and are the type of people to do that but after that I'd say leave him and find someone to treat you right and try to move on and not focus on what happened after that.