Learn to live with your own company. how?

March 10, 2017 1:32am CST
When anyone gets hurt or have broken trust because of someone, what everyone tells that person first thing to do? "LEARN !! LEARN TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF.... " seriously!! i mean noone tells how to do that. It's just like that, easy to say hard to convey. Doesn't it? you just go to google and search everywhere. What google knows about you? huh? Nothing. Then how can google tell about it? At least with me, google doesn't help in this case. What you think one should do in this situation?
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jaishankar
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
10 Mar 17
@punit7724 I am the happiest person whenever I am with myself.On those moments I relive my gone by days that I miss so much now.
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staplotick
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
10 Mar 17
Go out and face the world. That will teach you whether to expand or contract
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minx267
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
10 Mar 17
I don't know the answer.. I do know that I am one of those people who can be happy with my own company. I can go days with out talking to anyone and it wouldn't bother me.. I talk to my animals. I talk to people on the phone for work. but when I go home.. I may or may not even talk to my 3 roommates. I lived on my own before them for 8 years. I find I didn't mind living alone (so long as I have my pets) it is peaceful. PEOPLE Create Drama.. I don't like drama. I stay away from as many people as I can and just enjoy nature.
Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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10 Mar 17
@minx so ur companion are ur pets. Lucky you.
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minx267
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
10 Mar 17
@punit7724 Yep, I love em. and I surround myself with them. :) i have friends. and 2 of them live with me. but we just don't find the need to communicate every day.
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Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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10 Mar 17
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Prashanth
@Prshnth (907)
• Bangalore, India
10 Mar 17
its a serious life lesson i learnt over the years......no body cares for you if you don't care yourself well...
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Preetam Verma
@IamPreetam (223)
• Satna, India
10 Mar 17
self belief and self confidence is key for success in life
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Pammoo Raj Ratan
@pammooratan (4668)
• India
10 Mar 17
I think when anyone is not happy her she can daydreaming. Daydreaming means rememberING his good days.
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Always smiling
@allknowing (130994)
• India
10 Mar 17
I do that many times. I have a corner where I sit and re- live my memories - happy memories. You can set aside issues that are troubling you and do chores that do not involve others .
Always smiling
@allknowing (130994)
• India
10 Mar 17
@punit7724 Try it and see - one day at a time.
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Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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10 Mar 17
that's sounds like it will really be helpful. THANKS @allknowing
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Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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12 Mar 17
@allknowing definitely, Thank you
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M.-L.
@MALUSE (69388)
• Germany
10 Mar 17
Maybe you should start with *not* taking yourself so seriously. Get off your chair, leave the house and do something for other people who're badly off. You'll soon learn that you can get satisfaction from this.
Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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10 Mar 17
@MALUSE maybe, i will try that thnks
katrine
@carexing25 (1818)
• Philippines
10 Mar 17
learn to love yourself first .. give more time for yourself, achieve what you can achieve and think less of other people who doesn't care about you...
Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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10 Mar 17
@carexing25 Think less about others!! that doesn't happen with me. Idk how to do it