The old take pride in working and the young take pride in early retirement

@scheng1 (24649)
Singapore
March 21, 2017 9:12am CST
I have met the two extremes. Today I meet another old woman who is still working full time. She is 80 years old, and she proudly proclaims to everyone in the temple that she still works full time in a factory. To her, having the ability to work in her old age is a matter of pride. Many who are much younger than her cannot work due to ill health. I have also met people who retire in their 40s too. They take pride in the fact that they are out of the rat race by their frugality and ability to invest wisely. They are proud of their achievement. Personally I take the middle ground. I like to have the ability to retire early, so that I can choose to work on a job I like for as long as possible.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
21 Mar 17
I will work as long as I am able to. I enjoy working.
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Mar 17
If working is not to make a living then it will be ideal. Some people just work to make their lives much mroe meaningful. Working can keep us up-to-date. You will be much more energetic. If the work is busy, you even don't have the time to have a sickness
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@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 17
@scheng1 You are right. Actually I joined a volunteering group about the zoo and I hope I will able to do some volunteering work there in my spare time.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
25 Mar 17
@youless Right now I just joined walking events for charity, and next time when I retire from work, I like to take part in the organizing of it. It must be fun to work together with other volunteers to pack goodie bags, and to do other work to make the event enjoyable for everyone.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
24 Mar 17
Yes, those who do not work for money are generally happier than those who are forced to work for money. There are many people volunteering in the hospitals and they look very happy.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
22 Mar 17
I gave up my job in my forties but did something else. I started designing landscaped gardens for builders that gave vent to my passion for gardening.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
24 Mar 17
You sure are very good in whatever you do, be it a job or your gardening skill. I am sure you are enjoying every day to the fullest.
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@allknowing (153529)
• India
24 Mar 17
@scheng1 At the end of the day it is our activity that keeps us company
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
21 Mar 17
those who you met that retired in their 40s, what keeps them busy now? how do they spend their days?
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• Philippines
23 Mar 17
@scheng1 i've always felt that 40s is too young, unless you have many interests, hobbies and do volunteer work, charity or mentor. in other words, helping/contribution to the community/society.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
23 Mar 17
@hereandthere Actually 40s is a good age for retirement. The children are young, and need guidance. The parents are old, but not so old that you cannot bring them for holiday. Both children and aged parents have to go for medical checkup. Even if they do not have many hobbies, all these activities will take up a lot of time.
@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
25 Mar 17
I feel very fortunate that I have a choice to either retire or keep working for as long as I can ..
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
25 Mar 17
That is the best of all. I think when a person has this choice in his 40s, that is very good. He probably has 40 to 50 more years to go, and he can choose to live happily with or without a job.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
24 Mar 17
My husband retired early, but that left him more time to pursue other work. I was a stay at home mom, but still managed to put in enough years to retire early. I have no desire to work.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
25 Mar 17
haha, retirement does not mean not working. It just mean not taking a job, and work for others. I think you have asked your husband to work around the house more often than before, simply because he is available! Now you are his one and only boss.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@scheng1 Nope! My husband was the boss. We hire people to work around the house.
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@marlina (154103)
• Canada
21 Mar 17
It is nice to have a choice.
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@franxav (14591)
• India
21 Mar 17
I want to be active as long as I can.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Mar 17
If only I am able enough, I want to work. But sadly I am due to my illness. Working at home will be the best in my list.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
25 Mar 17
Working at home is still work. Having a job or not is another matter. Working at home is actually harder work than going out to work in an office. That is because salary is not guaranteed, and there are no benefits.