my friend is cheating on her husband

United States
November 26, 2006 11:38am CST
my friend is cheating on her husband with her co-worker who is also married. What should i do? Should i advice her to stop it or should i tell her husband since he is also a very good friend? Why do people cheat?
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moneyseeker
@moneyseeker (1024)
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2 Dec 06
What a problem! If she's your friend you have to be on her side surely - so talk to her about it. If she's really fallen for this guy at work then she has to work her own way through the difficulty. Personally I wouldn't tell her husband - it might just blow over. Why do people cheat? A hundred reasons - flattery, excitement, boost to ego etc .... and even love!
cutiepie28
@cutiepie28 (472)
• United States
2 Dec 06
thanks for your response.......
kristypants
@kristypants (305)
• Canada
2 Dec 06
I'd let her know that you find what she's doing wrong, but don't threaten to go to her husband and definitely don't tell him. You should never get in the middle of someone elses relationship, it will only turn out bad for you.
cutiepie28
@cutiepie28 (472)
• United States
2 Dec 06
Thanks for the response I have tried to explain her and she understands that it is not right but again she goes to meet him.
lucy02
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
2 Dec 06
I would talk to her about it and let her know she's making a big mistake. I wouldn't go to the husband. You don't want to get in the middle of something like that. He'll probably find out soon enough anyway.