I hate repeating myself
By Cait Tallon
@skydream (1445)
Agate, Colorado
May 4, 2017 8:38pm CST
I have a huge pet peeve of having to repeat myself over and over again. If it's someone just asking for clarification or to make sure they heard it right that's fine, but lately I've been having issues with my "best friend" for over a year now and it's the same problems over and over again. So once again I tell her the exact thing i have been for the past year to hear the same oh I'm sorry I'll fix it give me a chance, i last had this conversation 3 days ago and it's already back to how it was. I hate giving up on friendships and people but I hate repeating myself and constantly having my feelings hurt and when I'm repeating the same thing to her over and over again it all just feel pointless now
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
5 May 17
Its waste to time to such people, i have a childhood friend, she always wants some suggestions from me but never follows and keeps on asking what would i do in such situation and all, she questions me back when i suggests anything to her, i got tired of it. I finally said , see if you don't like my suggestions don't ask me , every one have their own way of dealing with things. From then i just ignore her.
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
6 May 17
@skydream yeah that's frustrating, but people wont realize it
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
5 May 17
Oh no. Not the best friend. Thats tough girl.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
5 May 17
When a person is confused or afraid of taking a step.. they seek comfort in asking same thing again and again. If you put yourself in your friend's situation.. maybe you'll understand..
I used to think like you before.. I hated my friends for not taking my advice and asking the same things.. but then I understood.. that it's really hard to take a step..
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