Stuck In a Love Triangle With Mama's Little BOY...

@waflay (2737)
Nairobi, Kenya
May 18, 2017 1:38am CST
Who is Mama's little boy? Think of a mature male species that behaves like a little thing that can't manage life without the mother. This explains who the Mama's little boy is in human-beings. Anyway, for a lady in love with such men, is like a fight that will never end. She just can't dominate his mind; he is not ready to part away with his mother and his mothers' wishes are laws in his mind. Guess what, I have a friend who is in such a relationship. Of course, she thought that love will eventually conquer everything but as days went by she realized that she has no say and her man would only respect the will of his mother. According to her, she tested his mind once (obvious things ladies do or say to know how much she means in his love life) however, the guy told her that if his mother wakes up one day and tell him to leave her, he would not think twice. Oops! That was her worst fear. Anyway, she has put up with his childish way of life for years--- for her children's sake. She knows how to handle her mother-in-law, the only cord that is holding her marriage together. Amazingly, the man is always there for her and has never abandoned them for anything else. He has all vital signs of a good husband, apart from an inner thing with his mother. What can she do to win him over, be the first choice in his love life? Should she stay like a loyal wife and forget everything he said, or what he does 'just because his mother said so'? Step in her shoes, feel her fear and her desperation and give her an advice fit her lifestyle. What is your say!
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
18 May 17
If her mother-in-law is a good person then there won't be any problem. Almost all guys are like this. They're mama's little boys. If I was in her place, I would leave him. Because I don't want to adjust somewhere I don't belong or accepeted. I don't want to live my life like that
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
Oh yeah, almost every man loves his mother... but not every man who loves his mother is willing to discuss his marriage secrets with anyone (including the mother). The only time she thought of leaving was the moment she was told he would not think twice to leave her if the mother-in-law tells him to. But she just can't because of her children, they need a stable family and that is what changed her mind to stay put as a second-in-command.
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• India
18 May 17
@waflay it's really sad what women have to go through just for the sake of their children. In my country, family involvement is normal. Everyone lives together in the same house. The daughter-in-law have to do what the husband's family says. She has to sacrifice a lot of things. It's really sad. Nowadays the scenario is changing a little bit.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
@Slayqueen For those who believe in love, change is a must and it needs sacrifices from parties involved. It is sad when one gives up her treasured family while the husband sticks to his mother for life.
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
18 May 17
why don't you settle the matter sitting together.?
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
Not that easy!