Do you apply decision of someone else in your life??

@hema7213 (3517)
India
May 18, 2017 2:49am CST
hey friends, My topic is different today. But I want to ask you that....I really don't know if mylot will allow me to ask these kind of question. God has given every person authority to take his or her decision by themself. we can decide what we want to be, what we want to eat, what we want to wear. We can decide everything even they are toughest or life changing decision like getting married or where we want to study...right But what if someone is taking your simple and easy decision like what you are going to eat or wear....Forget about the tougher decision. Do you eat the dish which another person decided or do you eat which you personally like?? Let me know what you will do or what we should actually do??
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@jstory07 (148771)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 May 17
My husband and I decide everything together.
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@hema7213 (3517)
• India
18 May 17
Ohh that's nice....You both must have nice bonding and understanding
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@shaynas (5486)
• India
18 May 17
I don't let anyone decide for me. But sometimes, specially in the family, you have to adjust on some things.
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@shaynas (5486)
• India
18 May 17
@HAPPSINGH yes, kind of. Unless I am in a bad mood
@shaynas (5486)
• India
19 May 17
@HAPPSINGH We were planning to go to a water park tomorrow, but kabeer unwell again. So will be sticking home
@shaynas (5486)
• India
19 May 17
@HAPPSINGH Yeah he has. Last 2.5 months, he just keep falling sick. Before that he was a healthy child. :(
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 May 17
I can’t eat according to other’s wish for sure. I will do it my own wish. Not only on eating but on other things too I need freedom. I may take suggestions for dressing up or selecting menu etc but can’t take orders at any cost.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 May 17
@HAPPSINGH How can we live without freedom? Horrible
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 May 17
@HAPPSINGH Today no mood to do mylotting anyway.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
20 May 17
@HAPPSINGH haha I am lazy again today.
@responsiveme (22923)
• India
18 May 17
When we eat at home then it's a common meal but eating outside we order dishes of our choice
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@BabyRai1 (891)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
I believe it depends if you're in a relationship or not.
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@BabyRai1 (891)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
@gilggg since i have a roommate, we usually make a decision together about what to eat and what to watch
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
18 May 17
@BabyRai1 Sometimes you choose the share your decisions with other... It's your decision to choose it
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
18 May 17
@BabyRai1 why do you think relationship should be influance your decisions?
@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
18 May 17
I think that sometimes even though you think the decision is yours, It is actually influenced by the people who raised you and educate you, So it's someone else who decide for you , and you didn't even notice it
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@BabyRai1 (891)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
@gilggg true.in one way or another decisions we make are influenced by either family, friends and loved ones
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
18 May 17
@BabyRai1 But you are the only one who make those decisions...
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@BabyRai1 (891)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
@gilggg i do make them
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
18 May 17
No i don't like anyone taking decisions on behalf of me. I decide what i eat.
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
18 May 17
If it is applicable life experience decision, I will take it. If not, I don't bother.
@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
18 May 17
Generally, such thing does not arise. How can we impose our decision on others? In the case of kids, it is our responsibility to tell them and order on their behalf. Even then also, we listen to them and order what they want.