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@luispas (1674)
Venezuela
May 28, 2017 8:30am CST
In college, I realized that I've spend 4 years of my existence, enough time to make a few or at least one friend, but I didn't. I don't trust in anyone there, none inspires confidence so I prefer to stay away from them. Another thing it's that they only care for themselves, they're arrogant, individualistic, selfish, have no good intentions. And I find it very sad to see people like that. I must admit that there are some who have values ??and are kinder.
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@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
28 May 17
I think that it must be in your personality to not be more dependent on other people. If you were, then you would have tried being friends with those people regardless of their negative penchants. Am I correct?
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• Philippines
28 May 17
@luispas You don't have to actually create a relationship with people that you don't want to be with. The world is a huge place, you could find people who would fit with you somewhere. But may I ask, what makes you think that the people around you are arrogant? Oh, and sorry for the late reply. I went offline a while ago.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
28 May 17
Omg I can't say this better. I feel like I'm just being be, and the friendship it's not something I need to force, it just happens. And with these people, nothing happen, with my personality (as you said) I feel like I don't want or need to create a relationship with people I don't feel comfortable.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
28 May 17
@Tierkreisze I know, that's why I just don't worry so much about it. I don't know :c they act like kids honestly. Don't worry, I had problems with my connection
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• United States
28 May 17
Everyone is self absorbed much more today it seems and fewer are the ones you can even like. I know you have some decent friends, but to associate in college must be so hard for you. Do you have much longer at this college? When will you be finished?
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
28 May 17
That's the problem, we can associate just with few people. It's a long time I had in college but I graduate in 1 year, so I have to deal with them for just another year, I can do it :D at the same time I want to leave it right now
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• United States
28 May 17
@luispas Yes hopefully the time will fly of one year. I remember when I was trying to achieve my goal of getting through beauty school (hairdressing) and the girls were so mean..I was happy to get out of it after a long 2 yrs as I was working and school..But the last year went by so fast!!! And then you can return home I hope right? And get work in your own place? Your school is in your own country right or no?
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
28 May 17
@TiarasOceanView What a shame that yoy had to deal with mean people, the good thing is that you leave that behind. I hope so too, but the time is not flying, at least not by now haha I study kind of far from home (in another state) but the thing is that I want to live in another country, so I want to finish the college and live, that's what I always wanted, I hope I can have the chance to do it.
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@responsiveme (22923)
• India
29 May 17
Hope you get to make some good friends. There is a time and place...It will happen
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
29 May 17
Thank you so much :) I know it's gonna happen
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@Kandae11 (57231)
28 May 17
In due time, the right friend or friends will come along.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
28 May 17
Exactly, the time will tell us. And I don't want to feel forced to do something
@JediYoda (1646)
• Samoa
28 May 17
There must really something wrong along the way in your college days.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
28 May 17
Yes, sometimes I feel kind of lonely because I don't have none to open up. But I know how to deal with it
@magnumopus (1644)
• Singapore
30 May 17
I met some good friends during my college days.
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@luispas (1674)
• Venezuela
30 May 17
you're so lucky :D that's great, do you still talk to with them?