Who/What Are They?

@else34 (13517)
New Delhi, India
June 7, 2017 4:02am CST
A friend of mine asked me,' Do you know the member you are interacting with is a man or a woman?' 'No',I said, ' I don't. And it doesn't matter to me.All I know is the person I am interacting with is a member of mylot,and that's it.' Do you care whether the member you are interacting with is a man or a woman?
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
7 Jun 17
Sometimes it is difficult for me to identify whether I am talking to a men/women. The problem arises when we interact to others about that person, at times, is it needed to mention he/she, that time I got struck, I was not sure the person’s gender as it is difficult to predict from user name. But on the long run, we can understand it by way of their talking, if it is female must talk about hubby and vice versa. In case of unmarried also, they leave some clues without their knowledge. However, for replying to a topic, we don't mind the gender of the person.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
8 Jun 17
@else34 I even thought our dear diana was a man
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
8 Jun 17
@else34 Yes, but no issues, we have so much patience to find it ourselves.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@Sreekala Usernames may be misleading.
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• India
7 Jun 17
Rightly said, i too don't care about the gender to who am talking too. In mylot all are like a family members and we support each other
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• India
7 Jun 17
@else34 it's a nice place and we can learn a lot from them. What ever doubts we have there are lot of people to help us
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
@sunilparthan Exactly.We are here to interact.What difference does it make whether a particular member is a man or a woman.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
7 Jun 17
It might depend on topic or the tone of the discussions sometimes, but most of the cases, it does not matter
@Shavkat (137163)
• Philippines
7 Jun 17
I don't mind. If I do, I am taking the point of discrimination.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
@Shavkat I agree.There is no point in knowing whether we are interacting with a man or woman.
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@Shavkat (137163)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
@else34 I think we need to be sensitive in interacting with mylotters, too.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@Shavkat Exactly.I agree.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
7 Jun 17
I don't really care if the member is a man or a woman, what matter to make is I'm interacting to them
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@ilocosboy, Right.Here all we are interested in is each others' views.Who cares if the person at the other end is a man or woman?
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@ilocosboy Gender is not an issue.You're right.We are here to interact and make money and that's it.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
@else34 that is correct, in the end, its the earning in the bank we are curious of and not the gender of our fellow mylotter.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
7 Jun 17
It is helpful in interaction if we know about the gender of the person.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@Bodyandbrain Definitely,but if you try to guess by their usernames, you may get misled.
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• Gurgaon, India
8 Jun 17
@else34 yes usernames and DP don't help to understand mostly if the person is male or female.
@Av8r27 (109)
7 Jun 17
Surely it doesn't matter because mylot isn't a matrimony or a dating site where u have to be really concerned about the gender. Its just a platform for sharing wisdom with people and taking it in return from all round the world. :)
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@AvBr27 LOL !! Exactly.We are not on a matrimonial site.Here we interact and that's all.We needn't know whether the person at the other end is a he or she.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
As long as the posts are meaningful and leave something for me to say, I do not mind the gender of the user.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@else34 Yes, you are very right.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@dpk262006 Thanks.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@dpk262006 I never mind if I'm talking to a man or woman.We are here to interact and that's exactly what I do with the best of my ability.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
7 Jun 17
I don't care whether it is a man or a woman. For me having a great interaction with the person is important. But there has been cases (when i didn't have a display picture) and people thought i was a male.
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@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
9 Jun 17
@else34 i agree.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 17
@Nawsheen Thanks,dear.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@Nawsheen Exactly.Interaction matters,but sometimes it becomes difficult to know who we are talking to.Usernames generally give us a wrong idea about their gender.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
7 Jun 17
No,I do not mind to the person's gender I am interacting.But in rare cases,knowing the gender will be helpful.But as I said, this is not something I bother about.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@silvermist I don't bother too.Here we interact,and that's all.What is the point in knowing or not knowing the gender of the user on the other end ??
• United States
7 Jun 17
There was a person I commented back and forth with who I thought was a guy from the photo, but it turned out to be a woman.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
@AbbyGreenhill LOL!! I had undergone a similar experience in old mylot.I responded to a discussion thinking that I was talking to a man,and finally came to know she was a young lady.She,on the other hand,had mistaken me as a girl who was like her younger sister.
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
I'd like to know. It'll help me more on how I construct my comments.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
8 Jun 17
@sol_cee You may directly ask them who they are.But ultimately you have to interact and that's what matters.
@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
7 Jun 17
Unless the discussion is not offending to someone it is regardless, if it is a "he" or a " she"
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
7 Jun 17
I don't really care if the member is a man or a woman, what matter to make is I'm interacting to them
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@shaynas (5488)
• India
8 Jun 17
I don't :)
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@klynlyn (154)
9 Jun 17
Why? Is it a big deal if its male or female? I mean to me, it doesn't really matter.
@klynlyn (154)
9 Jun 17
Why? Is it a big deal if its male or female? I mean to me, it doesn't really matter.