noisy neighbors
rude neighbors
this is why i dont have children
balcony woman
its too early for this crap
The Neighbors Are At It Again
By StacyB
@Srbageldog (7716)
United States
June 8, 2017 11:15am CST
It wasn't even 8:00 this morning and my rude neighbors were outside on their balcony shrieking and hollering with their toddlers. Not like they were outside having fun or exploring -- they were just making noise for the sake of making noise. Yelling instead of talking and then laughing loudly and shrieking back when the kids shriek. That kind of behavior is rude early in the morning even if you live in a house with neighbors next door to you, but it's even more so when you live in an apartment.
I have lived in this building for 9 years and I don't have children. Just because a family who has loud, bratty children moved in next door 8 years after I did doesn't mean I should be forced to listen to them screaming and throwing temper tantrums all day long. Worst yet is that the adults are encouraging their bad behavior by shrieking and hollering along with them. I don't know why they even live here, as the mom has a very good job at the same place my own mother works, and this family could easily afford to live in a house. Instead they are renting in a low income area and acting like bigger low lives than any of my other neighbors... And then they have the nerve to tell their kids not to talk to the other neighborhood children because they're "low lives." Sorry, the only low lives around here are them! Further proof that being a low life is not totally dependent on socio-economic status, but is all about attitude. I mean these people have a woman living on their balcony who has even laid out a throw rug and furniture... Whoever heard of that? If you have someone living on your balcony (who spends her days loudly talking on her phone, making out with her girlfriend, smoking pot and listening to loud rap music,) then I don't think you're in any position to pass judgement on others.
I wish these people would move. What's really frustrating is that about two months ago they packed up all their belongings in a UHaul and DID move out of state! But they left the Balcony Woman behind and then ended up coming back. I've never heard of people holding onto an apartment in one state while relocating to another and then coming back to it. Further proof that they could afford to move to a nicer neighborhood, and give their kids a yard to play in. Instead I'm forced to hear their brats kick the wall and wail at the top of their lungs first thing in the morning, and if I complain about it people just say "Oh, that's what toddlers do." Just because toddlers are prone to temper tantrums doesn't mean the behavior should be tolerated or encouraged. These people have no respect for their neighbors, and I'm fed up with it. I'm tempted to pound on the walls and yell back at them when they're being noisy.
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7 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
9 Jun 17
I have deep compassion for you Stacy..I wish that you could move too to get away from these absolute monster. I can only imagine the suffering you are going through.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Unfortunately, anywhere I could move in this area I will encounter crappy neighbors like this. These people are actually tame compared to the lady who lived in their apartment a few years ago. At least they aren't pounding on my door at all hours demanding to borrow ice cubes and tortilla chips! But their inconsiderate loudness, especially early in the morning, has gotten on my last nerve. I guess they've never heard of "inside voices."
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
9 Jun 17
@Srbageldog I pray that they move one fine day, but it doesn't sound like as they have it all worked out the system. Maybe you could look further afield Stacey..this kind of thing can really do a number on you. And plus you are dealing with health problems. I would love for something to change for you.
I know the suffering believe me.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
9 Jun 17
@TiarasOceanView I wish I could afford to move... I'd love to move somewhere far away from people, especially if they have kids. I mean I love kids in small doses, but not when they're constantly throwing fits and being brats. This current generation of kids seems a lot worse than any before them. So entitled and spoiled and their parents don't do anything to try to discipline them. I don't think our area has anywhere to live that bans kids though. Everywhere caters to families and even if you choose not to have any children, you're expected to just put up with other people's brats. Normally I enjoy the sound of children playing outside, but I don't enjoy the sound of children constantly screaming and crying coming through my own wall!
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@sissy15 (12685)
• United States
18 Jun 17
Just one of the things you get to deal with when you live in an apartment. I can hear our upstairs neighbors sneeze and jump around and drop things on a regular basis. I hear them when they are yelling at the TV. It sucks, I'm glad the people with bratty kids moved out. The boy can be loud but we get after him. He used to throw tantrums and sometimes we would ignore it because he wanted attention but it wasn't constant. Toddlers do make noise from time to time but it shouldn't be the way those kids do. Of course, their parents or the adult in charge are probably why they act that way.
It amuses me that you have a neighbor that practically lives on the balcony, maybe you have a story in the making there lol. Too bad the neighbor is a jerk, why couldn't you have gotten a friendly hobo instead? That would have made life easier. Hopefully, things start to get a little better. Apartment living sucks sometimes. I love when I go out to my sister's and it's quiet.
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@sissy15 (12685)
• United States
20 Jun 17
@Srbageldog Yeah, that's sad. It's too bad they don't have someone with them full time that is actually there for them. It's not good for a kid to be constantly yelled at.
That'd be asking too much, alas we can not choose our neighbors, let alone who gets to live on the balconies of our neighbors.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
18 Jun 17
I actually feel bad for those boys. The balcony woman screams at them and calls them obscene names when she's left in charge. When their dad is there they don't misbehave like that or throw tantrums nonstop (I can hear the different voices through the wall, especially if I'm in the bathroom.) And right? Why couldn't I have a Hugh Jackman hobo lookalike next door, instead of some nasty lady in khaki shorts and a wife beater, with a buzz cut, who tries to act all tough and verbally abuses her little nephews? :(
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
10 Jun 17
What is it with noisy neighbors? :(
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
8 Jun 17
Yep, exactly. The two other families in our fourplex also have toddlers but none of them act like that. Children reflect the adults they're around.
@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
8 Jun 17
Girl, do it! Our neighbor had to learn ny us doing just that. Plus here, if you have problems with neighbors you have to bring it to them, then the office if they keep at it. So we did. *angel face*.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Good for you! I'm not sure what we're supposed to do with lousy neighbors... I've called and complained about people in the past but the rental company never does anything about it. The man who lives next door is scary and has come over here before pounding on our door screaming about the fact that he had nowhere to park his truck.... But he didn't care that he stole my boyfriend's parking spot and left him without anywhere you park! This was when they'd only been here like two months and we had lived here 8 years already. That man scares me. So I'm always afraid if I do anything or complain about their loudness, he'll come over here trying to rip my head off.
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@Courtlynn (67089)
• United States
9 Jun 17
@Srbageldog i wwould be scared but id still do it like we do here. As its unacceptable.
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@andriaperry (118793)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun 17
I feel for you, I lived in a duplex before moving here and they would start at 6 am! We are NOT morning people. They would turn the t.v. up as loud as it would go! Yelling at the kids, all that.
So not to be mean, since we are night people, We would return the favor every night. I moved the t.v. on that wall and I listened to it while I cooked and cleaned, since I have one who is hard of hearing I began to yell so he could hear me.
They learned respect fast! I lived next door to them 1 1/2 years before I found this peace and quiet I have now.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
9 Jun 17
Glad you showed them! I am not a morning person either. Sometimes I will play loud music on Friday night to try to retaliate and see how they like it. But it doesn't seem to be making a difference. Maybe I need to start hollering around for them to get the picture... Although who knows if they'd even hear me over their own loudness!
@thislittlepennyearns (68246)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
8 Jun 17
I wouldn't call that rude. It's not like it was five am.
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
8 Jun 17
It starts around 6 a.m. everyday. And you don't think it's rude for a bunch of adults to be hollering and shrieking and encouraging their kids to be loud in close living quarters at a time when most people are just waking up and getting ready to go to work? I call it rude any time of day when you live in an apartment and neighbors are constantly yelling and shrieking.
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I understand that we all live differently but i guess some people are a little bit insensitive. I told my landlady about them and somehow they toned it down but still..


