Should I tell Her That My Coworker Kissed Me?

@waflay (2737)
Nairobi, Kenya
June 8, 2017 6:03pm CST
In the world of love, everything is possible and we might be careless sometimes. We have to fight against all that glitters out there, but we can't pretend that we are so perfect not to feel anything. And when that animal hour comes, we face the reality. Call it an accidental kiss that leaves an 'awkward moment' between the two of you. What else? Should you go tell your girlfriend about it or forever keep your silence and never to allow the same thing to happen next time. Is being honest the better option here? Or just act as if nothing happened and stay peaceful with the person you love beyond all that glitters... Have your say!
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Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
8 Jun 17
Telling a girlfriend or wife that you kissed another woman is the end of you for sure.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Jun 17
That is the SAD reality! So funny how life works. You may think you are being honest with the one you love but in the real sense, you are ruining everything you've been building like forever.
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Oshy
@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
8 Jun 17
@waflay Yes it is the reality Wayflay..honesty is very hurtful at times.
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josefina
@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
In this case honesty is not the better option especially if your girlfriend the jealous type. And I don't believe it was an "accidental" kiss. Accidents don't just happened, they are caused.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
8 Jun 17
An accident is an unintended happening, right? That is exactly what happened because she knows everything about me and it has never crossed my mind that she was hiding 'flowery' feelings towards me.
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Toni
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
I think it's best to keep it to yourself. If you love your girlfriend, then you won't let that so called 'accidental' kiss happen again. No such thing as accidental because a kiss is a kiss and it was allowed to happen. And make sure you make things clear with the other girl you kissed that you have no intention to go further.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jun 17
Nice, I know it won't happen again because I put a stopper onto it.
Shavkat
@Shavkat (137312)
• Philippines
9 Jun 17
That would be a sin and big No for your girlfriend. But I think you need to be truthful to her.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jun 17
No doubt about. We have been through a lot together and I don't think anyone else is out there who can match her personality. It was an accident and that remains as so.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (137312)
• Philippines
10 Jun 17
@waflay Have you tried to tell her about it? I think you should be honest, my friend.
CaseyL
@CaseyRoss9966 (4056)
• United States
9 Jun 17
If someone went in to kiss me I would stop them and tell them I am not into them and I have a boyfriend and then I would tell my spouse about it. If it was a surprise/forced kiss then I would push them away as soon as I realized it and would still tell my spouse. There is never a time like this that I wouldn't tell my spouse. In my opinion, hiding it makes you look guilty and that it happened on purpose even if didn't. If you want a relationship to work you should always be honest with each other.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jun 17
She knows everything about me. She has met with my girlfriend and she is also a family friend whom I did not expect to corner me in a tight spot and yes! You know the rest... And, you just don't push someone away like that when everyone else saw you two having a nice little chat a while ago. It doesn't like a cool... and more so to a man to push a lady away when everyone is watching.
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waflay
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jun 17
@CaseyRoss9966 Well, I faced the situation in a man's point of view and whatever happened never will it happen again. It was my fault that I didn't see it coming.. I could have put up defensive mechanisms in place to avoid the deed. Have you ever watched a movie, Step Up: All in? Moose was dancing with a female dancer from another group and before he knew it.. she kissed him.. Yep! That was like so... Here is the clip: MOOSE DANCE
CaseyL
@CaseyRoss9966 (4056)
• United States
10 Jun 17
@waflay If you like and respect your girlfriend it wouldn't matter if everyone was there and watched you push her away when she went in to kiss you. It is a respect thing to the girl you're dating. You shouldn't care about appearance or what people would say because you turned a girl away. Also if this girl knows you well, knows you have a girlfriend, and knows your girlfriend then she isn't a friend to either one of you because a real friend wouldn't kiss someone that has a girlfriend.Sounds to me all she wants to do is stir up things and start things. If my boyfriend had a family friend lean in and kiss him or try to I would expect him to push her away no matter who she was or who was watching. Then if he tried to hide it from me that someone tried to kiss him or that they did kiss him and he just let it happen and I had to find out from someone else that was there I would be livid and we wouldn't be dating anymore. If you love and respect your girlfriend it doesn't matter the situation you would try your best to avoid it, stop it, or at least tell her about it afterward. Again hiding stuff like that makes you look guilty and it makes your girlfriend not trust you at all.