Betrayal

@Misty08 (224)
United States
August 2, 2017 12:42am CST
What would you do if you have entrusted everything to someone, but it turns out that person betrayed you in return, when you least expected it?
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@angelmels (541)
• Australia
2 Aug 17
That happened to me when I gave all my products from my online store to my friend to sell when i went for holidays, but then when I came back, she didn't pay me and just used the money. So pissed off. I kept on asking her to pay me or just return my items. At first she said just to give her time, but then it went to several months and she stopped replying. So i just deleted her on my Facebook. Don't want to get stress. I believe there is Karma. So bless her.
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• Australia
6 Aug 17
@Misty08 yeh very bad, she didn't value our friendship. Didn't even say sorry
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
6 Aug 17
@angelmels . Yes. Sometimes i couldn't believe some people won't even say sorry at all. But just don't mind her. She has lost someone true. Coz she's fake.
@Misty08 (224)
• United States
6 Aug 17
Oh my. That's pretty bad. It's like being duped and that person took advantage of your kindness. I really can't understand why people like that exist. I may sound harsh, but seriously. It breaks my heart that selfless and kind people get hurt because of people who doesn't value the good things in life. I don't know if guilt haunts them at all.
3 Aug 17
Well you should be happy that you canceled a negative element from your life. Life is to short to bother with people that are not worthy. So just cancel them from your life and move on.
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
6 Aug 17
Yes. It's quite good to cancel out negative things. But it's pretty heartbreaking too, I guess. Most especially if you have loved and considered that person as a part of the family, but that person never felt the same towards you
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
9 Aug 17
@SabrinaS Oh my. That's sad. I'm sorry about that. Yeah. We have to look at the Better side of things.. Sometimes, bad things happen for us to appreciate the good ones to come. And most often, they're not just good. They're actually the best. Let's just try to reinvent ourselves. :)
9 Aug 17
@Misty08 Got played by my bff of 20 years. I was in shock. But now after 2 years i am happy that it happened.
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
2 Aug 17
what did you entrust to them? are they replaceable?
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
11 Aug 17
Secrets my friend and honesty. Trusting them about your thoughts and being open to them about everything. But they managed to betray you in return
• Philippines
11 Aug 17
@Misty08 are you still friends with them?
@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
I've been there my friend. You couldn't just trust anyone anymore even your dearest friends. What did I do? Of course, I was devastated but what could i do? they have done it already. I never told them that I knew what they told others. They're still my friends till now but I don't trust them anymore and because of that experience, I never share infos anymore. I st ill do trust people but sharing infos....NO!
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@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
6 Aug 17
@Misty08 Indeed.What would you do when you encountered a betrayal?
@Misty08 (224)
• United States
6 Aug 17
I see. Yes. It's quite difficult. To patch things up with people who never valued you and severed your trust instead. It's so sad.
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
7 Aug 17
@renicemae I have encountered it. Experienced it for real. Of course, I reacted unwell. I went berserk.hahaha. I May be good but I'm still human. It sucks coz a friend I considered a sister did it, and just thought of my reactions as drama. I got mad at her for her ignorance and indifference. She kept the truth from me to protect my feelings. But she knew I was in need of that truth. In the end, I said goodbye to her. She never tried to patch things up anyway. I just let her be.
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@Neil_G (50)
2 Aug 17
Its a difficult experience to it. The rage of anger that will turn into bad revenge to it. Family support and counselling should be the key to be calm.
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
4 Aug 17
Yes. Pretty difficult. And betrayal of trust is definitely the worst, most especially if done twice in a row by two different people.
@laires (3)
4 Aug 17
well, i ignore the person, even if i like who did it. I love making money, so when I'm not working out of my house I'm working at home, and it's difficult to be alone sometimes but people should know how treat others and be faithfull.
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• United States
11 Aug 17
That describes my ex husband perfectly, the one that I callled one day to tell him it was about to rain and all his stuff was on the front lawn waiting to get wet.
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• United States
12 Aug 17
@Misty08 We are civil since we have a daughter to think about and because it was nearly 20 years ago that it happened.
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
11 Aug 17
Wow. Thanks for the share. Im not that mean, so I guess i have to apologize but I actually find the scene a bit funny..hahaha. anyway, how are you now? If you dont mind me asking, Are you in good terms? Civil or what?
@Misty08 (224)
• United States
12 Aug 17
@sumofalltears oh. That's great. I believe that's the most important. You make the best of what you can for the sake of the kid. That's nice.
• United States
10 Aug 17
I don't trust everything in one person.. because I simply learned the hard way not to be so trusting .
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• United States
12 Aug 17
@Misty08 these kinds of lessons hurt but you just become more guarded for next time.
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
12 Aug 17
@CookieMonster46 Yes. I guess they serve as lessons to at least make us strong.
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
10 Aug 17
It's sad when this happens. Learning lessons that are quite painful
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
6 Aug 17
It depends on what.. But I will be careful with that person if I am still friend with him/her..
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
6 Aug 17
@Misty08 I have to say this but it is hard to trust any one these days, and it makes me feel bad when you are friend with someone yet you still have to be on guard with that person. Still be friend with that person but just be on guard from now on.
@Misty08 (224)
• United States
6 Aug 17
@atoz1to10 . I say goodbye to people like that. That's just in my case. Well the moment I trust, I fully entrust you for real. And if you're gonna break it, over and over, as much as I don't want to lose u, I just have to say goodbye. I DON'T wanna live surrounded by people that are untrustworthy. It's difficult to be on guard all the time. I don't think relationships will be good if there's a wall of separation between people
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@Misty08 (224)
• United States
6 Aug 17
Yes. It's difficult to trust that person fully again, right? It's like keeping a potential enemy with you, by your side.
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