Owning your first home

@weevee18 (2065)
Philippines
August 19, 2017 10:52am CST
I'm not married yet though my boyfriend and I are already talking about it. One challenge is owning a house. It will, of course, be expensive hence the challenge. We both are earning just enough for our family and our own needs. What would you suggest that we do?
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
19 Aug 17
I think don't waste your money for the useless and unimportant thing. You have to save your money for the better future.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
19 Aug 17
@weevee18 yes thats very good for you. It's more fun to have a quality time with your family, and very important is you save the money very well
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@resukill22 indeed. Thank you for your advice :)
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
I agree with you. That's what we're trying to do as well. Mostly we just hang out at home with our families so it's less expensive.
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@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
I like how you are already thinking about that. If you both are committed in getting that then go and start. Try to scout for real estate properties for sale. Discuss how much you need to save and how much everything will cost - include processing fees, taxes etc. Check if you can also get a housing loan and see how much that is. From there, the two of you can figure out how much you both need to save in order to reach this goal. I just bought a house last year and I had to go through a lot of steps to get it transferred to my name... not to mention so many expected (and unexpectes) expenses.
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• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@weevee18 I had savings prior to buying the house but ai also took a loan for this. I had to go through almost 6 months of processing. Frustrating to say the least but all worth it once you are given the keys to the house.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
@rosedust82 I feel your frustration. 6 months is a long time. I think we'll also have to get part time jobs to save enough.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
Wow! Congratulations on buying your own house :) We wanted to have a house before we get married so after marriage we already have a place to stay. We're thinking of availing a housing loan but it's not that easy either. Lots of docs to prepare. How long did it take you to save up and buy?
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• Philippines
23 Aug 17
I don't have any sort of suggestion. It's better to chose the best checking out the best quality home, location and safety. So many factors but it's not something you both should be rushing specially if you're not regular at your work yet.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
23 Aug 17
We do have regular work though the pay is not high hence we're struggling in saving but we're trying our best. Thanks!
@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
20 Aug 17
we have owned several homes. You must consider closure fees,interest fees, upkeep, taxes and mortgage payments. Add all those up and consider if owning or renting is in your best interest.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
21 Aug 17
@weevee18 I enjoyed having a home and yard but it's less expensive for us to rent an apartment without the expense of upkeep.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
Thank you so much! Will discuss these matters with my boyfriend so we can make better decisions
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
21 Aug 17
@RubyHawk did it cost less overall?
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@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
20 Aug 17
That good that you both are earning for your expenses!!! You must marry if you love him!?!
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
Yes we both are earning and trying to save up but you know a house isn't really cheap so we should save extra. I do love him ??
@mohit459 (12565)
• Haldwani, India
20 Aug 17
@weevee18 it's good!! You will soon get a house of your own!!
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
@mohit459 yes! That's the plan ??
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@gauti2483 (587)
• India
19 Aug 17
You should be stable your income then you can get marry. Congratulations in advance for you marriage
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
Yes I agree with you. We're also trying to get part time jobs so we can save faster. Thank you :)
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• India
19 Aug 17
@weevee18 you need to permanent job not a part time
@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
@gauti2483 I have a permanent job already. Part time would be for the additional income
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
19 Aug 17
Why not begin in a modest way and rent a flat/apartment? It's nothing to be ashamed of. My husband and I have never owned a house and have never wanted to own one. We live in a rented flat and are content with it.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
I was actually thinking of renting as well but I think my boyfriend is not that willing to rent. Will suggest this to him as well. Thank you!
• Eugene, Oregon
20 Aug 17
Save all you can for a down payment so that your monthly payments will be lower. Prices are very high now, but might drop with any economic turn down.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
21 Aug 17
We will. Yes the price is really high right now. Thank you!
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@peachpurple (13963)
• Malaysia
20 Aug 17
It is wise to own a home first before marriage. Get a small home, just enough for 3.
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
Thank you! I really hope we can achieve it at the least possible time