MORE ON PEPPER SPRAY.
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (57233)
August 24, 2017 2:19pm CST
Reading the post by @SIMPLYD , titled "I Thought I Was Finished With My Pepper Spray Troubles " - brought to mind an incident which occurred some years ago. While SIMPLYD had no intention of hurting anyone , that's not the case with everyone.
My son's college buddy had a girlfriend who always appeared quiet and unassuming, but she fooled everyone. One day after a very big argument between the two, my son's friend was sitting in his parked car sorting some bills when the still very angry girlfriend appeared and pepper sprayed the outside of the car. Naturally, some of it entered the open window and affected the poor guy.
He was more shocked than anything else, for he could never imagine she would do something like that. Needless to say, that was the end of the relationship - she wasn't even allowed to set foot in his house again. He requested that her mother collect the clothes and other personal items which she kept at his house.
How would you behave if your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend got you really angry? Would you want to harm that person - or try to talk it over ? How would you deal with the situation?
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22 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
24 Aug 17
I would certainly just walk away and move on.
No way would I pull any stunts at all.
There are some crazy people around for sure.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
24 Aug 17
@Kandae11 Well, to do such pointless meaningless actions does not endure one to the person either lol
if indeed that would be the goal.
if indeed that would be the goal.
@LeaPea2417 (40020)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Aug 17
I would not try to hurt them, but I sure would walk away from the situation, until they cooled down, even if I had to spend a few days or months away from them.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
24 Aug 17
That was really immature behavior on her part, but there are many who don't act responsibly when they are unhappeny.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
25 Aug 17
Oh, that was indeed unforgivable. Good thing nothing bad happened to the boyfriend. His reaction and decision was justifiable.
Naturally, when I am angry, I would really have a big voice in voicing out what I feel. Though, it will be that way, when we are just by ourselves. But when in a public place, I would control myself and explode once we get home.
Thanks for the mention, by the way.
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@averygirl72 (38847)
• Philippines
25 Aug 17
I will not harm the person unless his the first to harm me I will fight back
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@FayeHazel (40230)
• United States
24 Aug 17
Sometimes it's the quiet people you have to watch out for
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Don't know what to say about that girl. I don't think that is right. (When I get mad at someone, I walk away.)
@allknowing (153544)
• India
25 Aug 17
We have had temper tantrums but never went to the extent of hurting each other. "The "After the storm comes the calm . After the calm comes the sunshine" has been an oft repeated quote accompanied by a cup of tea and that too initiated by my husband.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54714)
• United States
27 Aug 17
Pepper spray is nothing to mess around with. I am not one to want to do harm to others. I might hit my husband with a pillow if he annoyed me enough
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A pillow fight is having fun.
@JamesHxstatic (29410)
• Eugene, Oregon
25 Aug 17
I would talk it over really, but if she did something like that I would head for the exit in a hurry.
