When can I have my own?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
August 27, 2017 6:11am CST
Every time I see pictures of houses being posted on Facebook, I can't help to feel a little blue. I just love how beautiful and clean those houses are. And every time I've seen one, I always ask how much the prices of those houses. When I was a kid, I always like to draw my own house. Before I wanted to have a two-storey house, with a veranda so that whenever I wanted to read a book I just got there and feel the cold breeze and have some coffee. I also like to have my own single size swimming pool, so whenever I feel the sun's heat, I just have to stay there and relax. I also want to have my own garden where I can plant different colours of roses. And seeing those moderns houses, I just wanted to have my own space. I don't care if it's just a room like or a condo type as long as I'm comfortable. I wanted to have my own space and be at peace. But the prices of that house or a condo type are too expensive. If only I have lots of money.
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@Morleyhunt (21741)
• Canada
27 Aug 17
Do you think we would post unflattering photos? If I share a photo of my home I crop out the broken and messy stuff. It's like the selfies people share. They discard 100 to get one that's most flattering.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
Most people do that. Lol.
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@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
27 Aug 17
I am dreaming of something like that but I guess I'll only get it when I apply for a lone. Buying a lot and buildinga house in it costs huge money.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
I agree I am also thinking of applying for a loan but getting a loan is complicated than having your own home.
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@renicemae (4883)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
@JustBhem I guess it depends on where you are planning to get the loan. Be sure to negotiate well and know the interest.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Aug 17
@renicemae Yes, but I don't think I qualify.
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@averygirl72 (38849)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
Same here I'm not contented with our house but it's kind of okay but I have a dream house too. I problem how to make it come true having one is expensive. Can I try lottery so I can have big money to use for building my dream house
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@averygirl72 (38849)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
@JustBhem But I think it's hard to depend on that. Hope some good fortune will come to us in the future and we can build our dream house
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Aug 17
I'm thinking the same thing, 2 years ago I used to be in the lottery. Thinking if I win, I can have all my dreams come true.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Aug 17
@averygirl72 Few are lucky to win but who knows. Still a lot of people rely on this for luck. And I agree, we need to work on that.
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• Baguio, Philippines
27 Aug 17
I have a lot of it, but only designs... I said someday, maybe I could be able to put up one.
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• Baguio, Philippines
27 Aug 17
@JustBhem You said it, Bhem...
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Aug 17
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
If we have the courage to work in our goal, I think we can do that someday.
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@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
28 Aug 17
I would never buy a condo anywhere in Manila .... I have a one hectare of land over there in the province and built a small house that so far have costed me 4 million pesos .. it is very cheap compared to a one bedroom condo that cost more than 20 million pesos...So if I were you, having a small piece of land in the province with even a small house is more practical.. and affordable ..
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@epiffanie (11327)
• Australia
30 Aug 17
@JustBhem i can imagine how expensive lands and houses over there in Davao.. A lot of people I know want to live there.. ;)..
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Aug 17
@epiffanie I don't know, that is what they told us, an even commercial land is so expensive these days.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Aug 17
Today, we cannot find affordable lands anymore. Davao is progressing day by day.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Aug 17
There are many beautiful houses and the price on them today is even out of my reach.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Aug 17
@JustBhem Greed.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
Yes, and I don't know why they keep increasing.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
@just4him Some people are.
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@dodo19 (48153)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
28 Aug 17
It can definitely be hard, when you don't own your own home and would like too. I do hope that you'll be able to have your own space one day.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Aug 17
Thanks, I'm praying for that.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
27 Aug 17
I hope one day you can live in your own space.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Aug 17
Crossing my fingers and toes.
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
27 Aug 17
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@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
27 Aug 17
having your own space is like having your own world where you can breathe freely
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@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
27 Aug 17
@JustBhem hoping you will be..soonest :)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
@Lucky15 Thanks.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
Exactly what I want @Lucky15 Reine25..
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
27 Aug 17
just don't forget, a house is not a home when there is no one living there. (sounds like the song, right?)
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
28 Aug 17
@JustBhem with love of course my friend.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
Haha, yes. I heard of it. Or simple shelter with everything I need. LOl.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
27 Aug 17
You're not alone, until now we still don't have our own house. My living is living in a house from relative you entrusted their house to us.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
I see, yes. I have a home but sometimes I am not happy. Having Brothers who know nothing about cleaning is always messy. That is why I wanted to have my own place so that I can clean it, make some moods over and be comfortable in it.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 17
You can't have a dream house but you can have a small house with cozy furnishings. Small and comfy
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 Aug 17
I don't mind anymore if it's small as long as I find comforts in it.
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@peachpurple (13961)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 17
@JustBhem good for you
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