Having more kids after delivery of triplets
By Lizirazo
@Lizirazo (2390)
United States
August 29, 2017 8:35am CST
I'm a mother of triplets (1st delivery). It hasn't been an easy task caring for three babies at the same, though have had several helps from nannies, friends and family members.
The triplets are now over one year and three months and some are of the opinion that l should have more babies but personally I'm scared of even getting pregnant due to the pains & stress of the previous pregnancy & some are even scaring me more that l might even give birth to more multiples.
What's your opinion and what will you do if you are in my position.
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9 responses
@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
Honestly I think the decision rests solely on you and what your medical advisers advises you. The stress and pain vis a vis wanting to have another child and taking to account the financial side if it's not an issue.
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
@Lizirazo if your hubby is against it, then stop thinking about it for now and just focus on and help each other in raising the triplets
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@rubyriaz007 (4187)
• India
17 Sep 17
It depends on a couple how many kids they want. No one has the right to stop them if they wish to have more kids.
@akalinus (44366)
• United States
29 Aug 17
Having a child is a very personal decision. You can't ask someone else to make it for you. You could end up hating each other. Discuss it with your husband. Decide if you can afford more kids or even take care of more. Put the children's welfare first and then fit the other things in to make a decision.
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@Happy2BeMe (99353)
• Canada
29 Aug 17
That is awesome to have triplets. I would be happy with three healthy children but the decision is up to you.
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@Sherwinmrtn (869)
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30 Aug 17
Wow, thats great, you are one of the luckiest women, we all know pregnancy is always painful, but because of your love to sacrifice you can do it :)
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@khaezi (1001)
• Philippines
29 Aug 17
First of all congratulations to you, babies are blessings, i want to have twins actually ?? If i were in your shoes depending on my finances that first 3 kids are enough. But if i am financially capable i can give another shot. And if getting pregnant again stresses me or the pain of giving birth i thin i'm good with three ??
@Tina30219 (82978)
• Onaway, Michigan
29 Aug 17
I say you need to go with your gut instinct on it. I am sure you will make the right decission on it.
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
4 Oct 17
That is lovely ! Congratulations!
I have never experienced birth, or being a mother but if I had 3 children, I don't know if I would want more. It is ultimately up to you and you husband. 
