what would you do if Your best friend falls in live with a lesbian?
September 9, 2006 9:10am CST
I really don't agree with homosexuality, but my friend fell in love with a lesbian. what should I tell her? Do I have a right?
13 Dec 06
As long as she is happy and in love, you should be happy for her. If she fell in love with a woman it shouldn't make any difference to your friendship with her. True love is so rare, so if she feels she has found it with anyone, even another woman you should be happy for her. I know the situation may be weird for you to accept at the moment. But in time, it will be easier. Who knows, her girlfriend may become a new friend for you also! Just not the kissing kind!
• United States
13 Sep 06
I would support them no matter what, afterall they are your friend. What if you found out you were gay, you would want them to support you would you not? Then again I have a few gay friends & I've also been known to take a liking to certain girls here & there... so who am I to throw stones?
• United States
10 Sep 06
Well a good friend of mine once announced that she was a lesbian and brought her girlfriend around to meet us... we were shocked cause she had never told us that she was even interested in girls then all of a sudden she had a girlfriend..... I must admit i felt a bit wired around her after I found out and it made me uncomfortable when she was all over her girlfriend but with time I got use to it... You cant really say anything unless you want to cause a fight over it ... You just need to bite your lip and try to get past it.. By the time I got used to my friend being a lesbian she decided she wanted a man again and now she has 2 kids and another on the way so the chances are that she wont be with her forever and it will pass so hang in there and don't say anything if you want to keep your friendship.. Good Luck...