Shortages. Shortages. Shortages.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 15, 2017 5:47pm CST
The boyfriend and I talked through messenger about our shortages since bills are coming their way. As a government employee, it will take time for them to get their salary. Sometimes two weeks and worse is the next month. Like as if they can do something about it. I have my pension coming by the end of the month or next month. I told the boyfriend I will enroll for a training program to become a VA here in the city so that I know the basic application needed. But the boyfriend seemed like he doesn't like the idea because he only thinks about the debt we have. I explained to him that it will not gonna cost me much. We end the night with an unresolved issue. I hope we can find a solution to this shortage.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
are you living in together now? so you have a joint account now? that is good.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
Nope. We are still separated. He doesn't like to stay here for long because he doesn't like my mother too, and my Brothers. As much as I want to stay here but I don't have a choice. We agree that what is his is mine, what mine is his as well. We plan to have a joint account but we always disregard it. I have accounts and he is the one holding it.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
What is a VA? I hope you can solve this issue Bhem.
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• United States
16 Sep 17
@JustBhem Oh I see..okay then of course friend will pray for a good resolution to this.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@TiarasOceanView Thanks it will be a good help, Tiara. I really do have a job like that so that I don't need to leave home.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
VA stands for Virtual Assistant Tiara. Praying for them to find a solution. Thanks.
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@allen0187 (59761)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
Hope you get this settled soon.
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@allen0187 (59761)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
@JustBhem good for both of you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
We will find ways to come up with a solution to this.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@allen0187 Thanks.
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@tech40 (23230)
• Philippines
15 Sep 17
hmmm.. I think you should focus on debt first before the training since the training didnt cost a lot..
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
I was thinking about it as well but I to work soon.
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@tech40 (23230)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
@JustBhem Your boyfriend is not on his proper mind right now, since he feel something not good.. :(
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
@tech40 Probably. We still have to talk. He is at work now. Later maybe.
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
15 Sep 17
I'm sure you can fix it, when the tension subsides it will go normal
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@ilocosboy (45155)
• Philippines
17 Sep 17
@JustBhem yes you can
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Sep 17
@ilocosboy And we already talked about it.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
Hopefully. We can find a solution to all this trouble.
16 Sep 17
living together
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
Huh?
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
16 Sep 17
Did you leave your job? ..
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
Nope. They deactivated my account because my Internet connection stops working for 2 weeks and 3 days. They told me I will have my account activated once it's okay. But until now, no response from them.
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
That's your decision to make. If this VA will help you make more money, then it's worth the investment. Its something that you can manage if you talk about it with each other more.
@amadeo (111937)
• United States
15 Sep 17
Oh not sure how to answer this.they will find a solution there?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
We are trying to find an alternative to fix this issue.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
16 Sep 17
What is the duty of a VA to public or how they helps people?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
VA stands for Virtual Assistant in short Virtual secretary.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Sep 17
I hope you do too.
@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
16 Sep 17
I know you both will make it through :)
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
Thanks, sis. We can do that.
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@YrNemo (20254)
16 Sep 17
Hope you and your boyfriend sort things out soon.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 17
Yes, we will. Thanks.
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