Social Media Problems

Havre De Grace, Maryland
September 16, 2017 3:10am CST
First off Good morning people secondly I have a gripe to speak. I have had issues with your significant other being on social media and that causing problems within your relationship. You significant other sometimes thinks this is a way out or not cheating i believe it is depending on the circumstance of the situations. What do you think I believe this is a big problem with some people.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Sep 17
If your significant other is trying to cheat on you, that is a serious problem. It will be harder to trust anything she says in the future. =(
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• Havre De Grace, Maryland
16 Sep 17
Correct that is why she isnt here anymore because when i left the house or turned my back i wandered what she was doing by hind my back. You in a relationship cant live like that.
• Austin, Texas
17 Sep 17
Sorry. It's late at night and I'm kind of tired. I hope I don't come across as grumpy! But I think my answer would be the same even if I had just woke up and was enlivened by my first cup of coffee. IF IT WERE ME!! Social media or no social media: If your significant other is going to cheat on you, it's best to you ask them if they want their “freedom to roam”. Cause you ain't gonna play second best or be a leftover. Life is too short for that kind of crap. Let them know plainly. If you don't want to be in a faithful relationship, then leave! As my daddy used to say: "Let the doorknob hit you in the back!" Get out! Don't aggravate me and create doubt! That's not love! ”Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her ...” ~ Proverbs 31: 10-11 Though this particular proverb speaks of a woman there are other words of wisdom that show the principle is applicable to a man as well. It's about a loving relationship. So! Uuumm ... Welcome to MyLot!
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
17 Sep 17
Id say it depends on what she is doing and if she is hiding things. If something is being hidden it is a big warning sign. My husband trusts me as he can walk in anytime and I will not hid a thing. If someone is cheating or looking at others like that they need to rethink it. Trust is a very hard thing to get back. If they are doing this they should just leave first in my opinion. I don't have time in life to not trust someone and be worried about cheating.
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• United States
20 Sep 17
My first question would be...How significant was this significant other. Someone that toys with other relationships while supposedly invested in a relationship obviously has personal issues that will prevent a lasting commitment.
@velvet53 (22544)
• Palisade, Colorado
16 Sep 17
So much of this kind of stuff is going on every day. If a person isn't happy where there are and feel the need for another then they need to move on. No one needs this stuff.
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@peachpurple (13960)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 17
You have your own account, he has his, why should he be bother of whom you are interacting with?
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