Sept 20~ Distraction
By peachpurple
@peachpurple (13891)
Malaysia
September 19, 2017 9:04pm CST
One thing that I don't like when I am busy blogging or Mylotting is distraction!
It is difficult to concentrate on my task online when constant distractions kept pounding on me.
My son has a very bad habit. Whenever I am free, I told him to discuss his homework with me because I could guide him on a few subjects that he is poor at. However he loves to procrastinate. He delays until he has the mood and then is the wrong timing when I am busy mylotting.
His distractions is horrible, every question, kept asking me how to solve it. He doesn't like to ask one shot, ask every homework problems before start doing on his own.
So, we constantly have arguments.
In other words, I have to wait for him 24 hours a day.
What are your distractions that bother you most?
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7 responses
@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
10 years old, tahun 4, yours ? always aking about maths and bahasa malaysia, headache!
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@khalif85 (351)
• Petaling Jaya, Malaysia
20 Sep 17
@peachpurple hehehe. I can teach him bahasa malaysia. Huhuhu
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@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
@khalif85 online kah ? how old is your son ? my son has problem with tatabahass, he cannot understand meng, meng ter , di
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
20 Sep 17
Actually, your son is very smart he knows it very well that when you are mylotting, it is best time to disturb you. 
. This way you won't be to able answer his queries completely and you just cannot complain that he did not discuss his home work with you.
As regards your question - I also like peaceful and quite atmosphere around me, when I am mylotting.
. This way you won't be to able answer his queries completely and you just cannot complain that he did not discuss his home work with you.
As regards your question - I also like peaceful and quite atmosphere around me, when I am mylotting.1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Sep 17
@peachpurple - You need to adjust with him, rather than he adjusting with you. Kids are generally naughty, so you need to get hold of him at an appropriate time. You could gently remind him that when you are busy, he should not disturb you unnecessarily.
. Kids are generally naughty, so you need to get hold of him at an appropriate time. You could gently remind him that when you are busy, he should not disturb you unnecessarily.1 person likes this
@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 17
@dpk262006 yes I did, but he shows tantrum
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@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
yes, a sneaky kid who knows how to distract my attention when I am busy. Many reasons when he gets punished by teacher for wrong answers. I prefer night time but need to sleep because had to wake up at 5am
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
20 Sep 17
@peachpurple yes this one fellow is entranced u my graphics
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@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
Yes, they don't know that mylotting require concentration, only we know
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
@peachpurple work is my distraction in myLot haha! but at least your son is willing to learn.. how old is he?
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@tech40 (23128)
• Philippines
20 Sep 17
@peachpurple Owh.. perfectionist! :) Cool guy! He must have a better future
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@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
10 years old, he wanted his answers to be perfect, he does not accept mistakes, a virgo guy
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@SHOHANA (16094)
• Bangladesh
20 Sep 17
@peachpurple but better to study all year long to get more knowledge
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@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
20 Sep 17
it is good to prepare in advance before exam
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@informationshelter (111)
•
23 Sep 17
Hi,
I've got a solution for you, so you can have two birds with one stone!
First of all, I believe that you should give your son more initiative in doing his homework on his own.
Encourage him to do as much as he can by himself, and perhaps tell him not to be afraid of making any mistakes. Reassure him that there is no right or wrong answer, just a personal point of view.
Then give him your own point of view (=the solution), and let him think on that.
In this way, he will start learning and thinking independently, without any assistance, and you will finally have free time to be active on myLot.
I hope this helps!
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@peachpurple (13891)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 17
thanks very much for your suggestion. But I have one huge problem, He is supposed to sleep at 10pm at night because he has to wake up at 5am in the morning for school. If I left him alone, give him the freedom to do his homework, he will start doing his homework AFTER dinner that is 8pm, he has 8 homework to finish. Once he comes back from school, he bathe, had lunch and plays computer online game the whole day until dinner. That isn't right , right? That is why I had to sit beside him and keep pushing him to do his homework after lunch. Otherwise, he will finish his homework after 12am!!! By the way, I had tried given him freedom several times, he rather do his homework during the last minute, he doesn't appreciate it.
