would you stay away from a guy that said that loves you and after a few days find a girlfriend?

Portugal
September 24, 2017 7:37am CST
Hi everyone I have a friend that said he is in love with me but we continued friends. Then after a month he told me that he met a girl and was love at first sight. I mean it isnt possible that you love someone one day and after a month you love somebody else right? I am his friend only but i think he didnt act right with me. For me i think that he lied to me about love me because of he did he wouldnt just forget that fast. What do you think? Please share
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@youless (112100)
• Guangzhou, China
24 Sep 17
Yes, I also don't like men who like that. I think it shall be very serious to say I love you and it is not so easy to fall in love with another.
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• Portugal
24 Sep 17
Yes we should only say it when weare absolutely sure of our feelings thanks for understanding the way I feel about it
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
24 Sep 17
He want you as a friend only. Not a over. Or he loves you as his friends
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
25 Sep 17
@Akatheu oh maybe ,why you dont ask him, ? So ur not confusing.
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Sep 17
@resukill22...sweetloceforeve said in her discussion the man told her he loves her like his girlfriend,, I think the man was jus cheating on her.
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Sep 17
@resukill22 I think if he said he is on love with her as a girlfriend, is different from just a normal friend. He just wanted to pass some time with her.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
24 Sep 17
Love has many levels. He may love you as a friend but not as a partner. Sounds like he is scared to be alone so he is always looking for love.
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• Portugal
24 Sep 17
But he said: i am in love with you. Like a girlfriend. Not as a friend but probably yes he wanted someone. And said that he lives me just to say.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
27 Sep 17
@Akatheu I agree with you
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Sep 17
@Happy2BeMe I think falling in love with someone means a lot whereas being on love in different too. I think the guy was desperate and needed just someone not knowing he could hurt somebody with those words.
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• Guangdong, China
24 Sep 17
He would just like to take you as a fallback. And you expected higher than he would like to show you. But of course, he does has the right to fall in love another girl because the real relationship between you two is just friends.
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• Portugal
24 Sep 17
Yes sure he has the right to find someone and i understand perfectly that he found it.What made me feel angry is that he said he was in love with me and a month later said that he has a girlfriend now and it was love at first sight and that is ridiculous in my opinion at least when i love someone i don't forget him in a month.
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• Guangdong, China
25 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve well, that provided you are a kind person, but your kindness needn't to give him, since he is a light-minded guy.
@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve for sure if you love someone truly nothing can stop you from loving them, even love at first sight can't stop it. In my opinion I think that was lust.
@rubyriaz007 (4188)
• India
25 Sep 17
I would obviously stay away from a guy ,who tells me that he loves me,and finds another girlfriend after a few days. This is not true love. It's time pass..
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@Akatheu (387)
• Nairobi, Kenya
25 Sep 17
@rubyriaz007 this is definately not true love but this man is just a cheater.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
24 Sep 17
He experiences lust it seems not love. Don't be surprised if after two weeks it is love at first sight with another girl.
• Portugal
24 Sep 17
Yes that is exactly what I think
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
26 Sep 17
@sweetloveforeve If I were a girl I would stay away from him.