The Drama Queen

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Philippines
September 29, 2017 10:45pm CST
So, my friend happens to know the affair of her sister's husband. Being the eldest, my friend did what was expected of her to do. She told her sister about it. The sister got mad, not at her loving husband, but at her sister!... The sister claimed that my friend was making up stories just to ruin their almost perfect relationship. That my friend was just jealous of her because she married the man of her dreams when my friend couldn't find the perfect guy. The sister was not contended in getting her claws at my friend... she even took the drama on social media. I was shocked of how the sister reacted and how she twisted the story to make my friend looked as the villain of her life. With the comments and different reactions flooding in, I came to defend my friend and told the sister to stop acting like a brainless witch and face the situation like a woman. And with that, I was instantly included in the war zone. Three months, the sisters didn't talked to each other. Until two weeks ago, the sister messaged me privately on Facebook saying that she personally caught her husband in the act with the mistress and she was devastated when she found out that the woman is pregnant! She was apologising to me, over and over again at what she did to me and my friend. I told her not to apologise to me but to my friend. If there's someone deserves it, that would be her sister. Now, I'm just wondering why the sister didn't shout it out on social media when she caught her husband redhanded. I hope the sisters could patched things up because I can still sense the tension between them. I can't blame my friend if it took her long to forgive her sister... But I still believe in the saying, Blood is thicker than water. (c) Photo from Google images.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
She should post that in social media, asking forgiveness to her sister so the people reacted previously in her post may be enlighten and people will understand her.
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• Philippines
30 Sep 17
I think the sister was ashamed of what she did and couldn't swallow the embarrassment @ilocosboy.. But you have a point, the sister should post a public apology of what she did to my friend.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
@rachz_kisses to clear the name of her sister and to be fair with you
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• Philippines
30 Sep 17
@ilocosboy you're right.
30 Sep 17
Truth is always hard to believe as its the most bitter thing in this world. People hate bitter things but they fail to see that bitter things like foods and medicine and truth are good for our health and mind
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• Philippines
1 Oct 17
That's true.
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• Philippines
18 Oct 17
@RoyaIPRINCE Who? the sisters or the couple?... The sisters are in talking terms now but there's still a lot to be fixed, like building up the trust again... The couple I heard are getting some legal counsel.
2 Oct 17
@rachz_kisses so how are they now ??
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
2 Oct 17
Sorry you got caught up on all of these, especially on social media. People who are usually high strung thrive on attention and take it to social media when they shouldn't. It's sad. That impression, posting about her sister can never be taken back. When I think of all the family and friends I have on my social media it just makes me cringe inside. It isn't surprising that there wasn't any posted on catching the husband read handed. Because then the wife, sister not only admit she was wrong about her sister and all the hateful things she said to her, you and anyone else, she's also admitting she to everyone else on the world wide plateform that her husband is unfaithful. I would hope the sisters do patch things up, but if It were me there....I don't know if I could look at my sister the same after her going crazy on social media like that. Kind of makes you wonder what else she's capable of if she is that hateful and throws her dirty laundry all of the internet like that.
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• Philippines
18 Oct 17
Hello @kprofgames. You are right. Though what the sister posted has been taken down after she caught the husband is never enough to bring back the trust again. It will not be fixed overnight but I'm sure the scars will be healed, only time will tell.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
i'm sure it's because she's so embarrassed/ashamed that her sister was right all along. so why not 1. delete that rant/slanderous post and all the associated reactions against you and her concerned sister and 2. send a private message to those "reactors" just like what she sent you? but i doubt she would want them all to know about her husband's infidelity. maybe next time someone bashes you or her sister about this, i hope she jumps in and defends you both.
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• Philippines
2 Oct 17
@rachz_kisses can't help shaking my head at the way people swing from one extreme to another.
• Philippines
1 Oct 17
Yup, she deleted the slanderous post @hereandthere. And I'm looking forward for another "self-pity post"... this time about being betrayed or heartbroken... something like that.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 17
She was guilty and shameful for what she did to you and her sister. She should humble herself to ask sisters forgiveness. Don't worry time heals, let them patch up.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 17
I agree. @Letranknight2015. They will restore their bond but only time will tell.
@cahaya1983 (11120)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 17
Sorry to hear what happened to your friend. Well, the sister is a victim too in this case but she should have known better how to respond instead of letting her anger out on social media.
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@cahaya1983 (11120)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 17
@rachz_kisses Exactly. It's sad to see that social media is full of drama like this one.
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• Philippines
30 Sep 17
Hello @cahaya1983, Yeah, I felt sorry for my friend, she's fond of her sister. But problems like this shouldn't be out in the public and the sister did a huge mistake of shaming her on social media. I hope they could mend of what was broken.
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@jstory07 (135092)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Sep 17
Some people do not want to believe the truth.
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• Philippines
30 Sep 17
Sad but true... @jstory07. I just don't understand why it should be posted on social media.
@sol_cee (38222)
• Philippines
30 Sep 17
Ouch. Spoken words hurt more than the physical blows. I wonder what she did with her husband.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 17
I didn't ask @sol_cee. But being the drama queen that she is, I'm guessing she made a scene. But, I really don't care and I'm not interested to know. If she wants drama then the spotlight is hers.
@just4him (308637)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
30 Sep 17
That is something that should not be shouted on social media, but taken care of between family, in private. The whole world doesn't need to know their dirty laundry.
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• Philippines
1 Oct 17
I agree.
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@Prshnth (907)
• Bangalore, India
30 Sep 17
Well I probably do not understand because I have never been in a relationship..
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• Philippines
1 Oct 17
You do not need to be in a relationship to understand the situation... @Prshnth.