Affection measured through Maltesers
By coolchai
@coolchai (753)
Philippines
October 31, 2017 8:57am CST
Hello my fellow myLotters! 
I just want to share you this incident because it is so unbecoming for me and my family.
I was assigned to join the academy just this July for a month i stayed in the US to finish the course. It was my first time to travel there and i am greatful that my cousin drives to places during weekends. In return i spend my food allowance with her and her husband.
Everything went out well except that i was not able to bring her mom’s Maltesers from Cosco due to excess baggage which i could not afford. So i left it at my other cousins house because her son will also go to the US he can then bring the chocolates for her.
When i went back to our country, my aunt gave me and my family so many harsh words and said that i do not value her as a person because i was not able to bring her the Malteseers that she is looking forward to. How can you measure the value of a person by not being able to do favors for a reasonable cause?
What are your thoughts on this my friends? I really feel so bad.
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I just want to share you this incident because it is so unbecoming for me and my family.
I was assigned to join the academy just this July for a month i stayed in the US to finish the course. It was my first time to travel there and i am greatful that my cousin drives to places during weekends. In return i spend my food allowance with her and her husband.
Everything went out well except that i was not able to bring her mom’s Maltesers from Cosco due to excess baggage which i could not afford. So i left it at my other cousins house because her son will also go to the US he can then bring the chocolates for her.
When i went back to our country, my aunt gave me and my family so many harsh words and said that i do not value her as a person because i was not able to bring her the Malteseers that she is looking forward to. How can you measure the value of a person by not being able to do favors for a reasonable cause?
What are your thoughts on this my friends? I really feel so bad.
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5 responses
@goodgirl_kakay (453)
• Philippines
31 Oct 17
if you had tried to explain it to her the reason why you were not able to bring along with you that Malteseers then you have nothing to explain further just give her a hug and a sincere apology, you already know how our folks in our country (matampuhin)
,all shall come to pass
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
1 Nov 17
@coolchai does your cousin know about what happened? what did she say?
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@coolchai (753)
• Philippines
1 Nov 17
@hereandthere she said that her mom said i have no conviction. Just for the Maltesers?
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
31 Oct 17
but maltesers are also available here
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@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
31 Oct 17
Oh 
I can understand the feeling of being trapped with their negative thinking For so many years we always pleased them and understand that they`re up and we`re down but what I don`t understand is why they can`t see all those sacrifices we always make for them instead wanted us to feel more down until we kneel infront of them 
. Anyways, I`m done with it all my big sister I hope you`ll not be affected by them just go on forward to your success because you can`t see them when you fail
I can understand the feeling of being trapped with their negative thinking For so many years we always pleased them and understand that they`re up and we`re down but what I don`t understand is why they can`t see all those sacrifices we always make for them instead wanted us to feel more down until we kneel infront of them . Anyways, I`m done with it all my big sister I hope you`ll not be affected by them just go on forward to your success because you can`t see them when you fail 1 person likes this
@coolchai (753)
• Philippines
31 Oct 17
@m_audrey6788 its 3am. Not sleeping too well nowadays
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
31 Oct 17
That's too shallow. Buy her Malteseers at duty free or better yet at S&R.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
31 Oct 17
@coolchai I think you're wrong. There's no difference in the taste especially when you get it in S&R or Duty Free. I've tried already.
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