Do you allow others to have control on you?If they do it how would you react? / myLot

India

December 8, 2017 10:12pm CST

In many families,we have seen one member will be bossy.They think they have only the right to take decisions and other members should accept it. They want to know everything like, where you are going, with whom you are going. They will decide the time when you should get back home. If any of your family members do this to you, how would you react?

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5 responses

Honey143

@sw8sincere (6032)

• Philippines

9 Dec 17

It is normal in my country for any member of my family to ask as such everytime I go out with friends but only when I was still a teenager. Not anymore now.

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Ella

@eliza_godinez12 (5783)

• Philippines

9 Dec 17

I don't have encountered such thing so far. I will not allow either if there is.

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Shavkat

@Shavkat (141905)

• Philippines

9 Dec 17

There will be no chance for a person to control me. I stay away from those people who are control freaks.

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JOSEPHINE

@nangayo (2290)

• Nairobi, Kenya

11 Dec 17

Just ignore them. I have an elder brother who behaves this way we have all decided to ignore him and go on with our lives. He wants to control our lives and tell us what to do yet we are grown ups.

Robin

@Daelii (5619)

• United States

9 Dec 17

I use to deal with this a lot, but eventually, I stood up for myself. :)

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Rubeena Bashir Kunju

@rubyriaz007 (4187)

• India

9 Dec 17

Yes, it is the right way. You have to do it or others will have control on you.Never allow anyone to have control on you. If they do ,you have to react immediately so that they won't repeat it again.